Got a girl drunk, we made out and did some other stuff at my place (not sex). She told me it was a one time thing in the morning. I ended up telling her I like her, she told me she likes me back. Problem is, when I was leaving and tried to kiss her, she said she only kiss in a relationship.

Is she a) telling me she likes me so that we're on good terms or b) just needs to be asked on a date?

She was fine with making out the night before, but freaked out over a single kiss? Women are amazing sometimes.

It sounds like she might be interested in pursuing a relationship with you. If you're feeling the same way, ask her out on a date and see if the two of you still like each other without being drunk.

Buyers remorse. She doesn't kiss in a relationship? She did when she was drunk. lol

She said it was a one time thing? There's two ways to look at this. Either it really was a one time thing and she said she liked you back just to be nice, or she meant it was a one time thing that she slept over first night meeting you. Might as well ask her to come over or on a date or something, can't hurt to find out which side she's on.

Don't listen to these guys. If she liked you, she would kiss you. If she wanted a relationship, she would kiss you. Plain and simple.

It's not your fault. She woke up, felt like shit, hung over in a strange place. Her telling you that is was a one time thing was her way of saying "damn, I didn't mean to do this and I never will again." Now that doesn't mean that's what will happen, only that she feels that way at the moment. Telling her you liked her at a moment like that is just foolish... something I have done many times hahaha. You must have got a weird reaction from her when you said it. I'm sure she was nice to you but I bet she avoided eye contact, changed the subject, left at the earliest opportunity, ect.

I'm trying to think of some solid advice but really anything relating to trying at this point will push her away. Your best bet when she said it was a one time thing would have been to say thank God and act relieved. Not said you liked her and not kissed her.

Aren't women confusing?

THATS RIGHT 100% i couldnt say it better
show her that you like her, not telling her. and you dont even barely know her your alreay telling her you like her thats a big problem she will think ur a desperate guy

Just understand some girls wants to kiss you but they just don't want to appear easy. Just brush it off and don't let it affect your game/personality.

Be non reactive ... who cares if she doesn't want to kiss you. In some cases it takes 5 tries to finally kiss a girl. Just don't let it affect your game/personality and move on like it's not a big deal ... because guess what it isn't a big deal. Shit yo ... took me 10 tries to finally break this lesbian to kiss me ... then multiple tries to finally get her to fool around ... etc etc etc ... every brush off she gave me did not affect me ... I step back ... act like nothing happened ... then try again but a little harder a phew minutes later ... then repeat until you get your purpose ^_^.

Don't mess up your thinking of if she likes you or not or all the gibberish counter intuitive emotions you are feeling ... instead assume or self proclaim prophecy that she likes you and she will generally will like you. For your next meet just ignore the event of her not kissing you and run your game none the less go for the kiss ... persistence is attractive ... non re activeness is attractive ...

When I was beginning gaming ... this situation happened to me before. Where I fooled around with a girl and the next day she had buyer's remorse. I sense her resistance and expressed awkwardness towards her. I basically let her resistance affect my personality/game. Therefore, due to my noobieness ... she later on facebook msg me that she made a mistake ... she apologized for leading me on ... that there was another guy ... that she was in a gray area ..... etc etc etc... it could never happen between us.

I was like wtf? Normally I would counter attack and be needy by trying to win her back. But, instead I said: "That's cool, it was more of an neutral interaction. Normally, I don't cross the line like last night ... but I obviously did. I apologize and if you don't want to further continue this interaction ... that's ok with me ... But, the fact that you are being straight forward like this is actually pretty cool and I'm even more curious of you now." .... I even made a joke saying "Just to be clear ... no more fooling around right ^_^?" ........ 2 days later I was like fuck I wish I didn't fuck that up .... but she later messaged me saying that she missed me and to go on a date with her.... I basically had her in the palm of my hand and she was intensely in love with me ... muahahhahaha

Therefore, be non reactive ... don't make small things be a big thing ... because they really aren't. When a girl sees this you will be different from most needy chodes out there and she will be insanely attractive to you!

Sincerely,

Donston

Donston is right on the button. And has some good advice.

The whole buyers remorse thing is pretty common. She isn't going to tell you that she doesn't like you after she spent the night fooling around. And it's not a case of liking or disliking. To her it's a matter of investment. Does she want to invest in you. By acting like a guy who wants a relationship, needs validation ect, you are showing her that investing in you is a risk because if she ends things in the future you could get hurt. Sometimes it's good to show some feelings, other times you'll freak women out, especially if they aren't sure. Don't beat yourself up over what has or will happen. Focus on the future. Game more women. Learn, learn learn. What will it matter a few years from now? The only thing that matters in the long run is what you learn.

We are going on a date this Friday. She reaffirmed over text that she likes me.

I really didn't give a fuck when I asked her on a date. I prepared for rejection and was secretly seeking rejection. I want more experience, good or bad because I want to start living instead of being afraid to ask or say anything.

I basically teased her over text saying if she only kiss in relationships then she probably doesn't kiss on dates. She said she did. I said we should go on a date then.

She's not getting a kiss after the date. I am going to make her wonder why the hell I didn't give her a kiss when I have asked for a kiss twice and she denied me.

When she give you that kiss me look on the date, have some self control and hit her with the " I don't kiss on the first date" she''ll be in the palm of your hand from that point on.

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When she gives you that kiss me look on the date, have some self control and hit her with the " I don't kiss on the first date" she''ll be in the palm of your hand from that point on.

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Good work, I didn't expect things to turn around. It was probably the change in your attitude. Either that or she sorted out what ever was holding her back.

Stop asking her if she likes you. Learn to read her reactions. Don't think of it as whether she likes you or not; think of it as "how is she responding to the current situation". If it's not a reaction you want, change the situation.