Ok so this 1 I've been after has been in the hospital for a week.. she's not gonna die or anything but she can't walk right now and shes in alot of pain.. so i went and visited her today. I know what its like to be in a room alone for a week and her family doesn't really come to visit.. I didn't really want to "game" her in a sickbed plus she doesnt feel too attractive with no makeup and smelling like a hospital.. But it went well. I stayed for a few hours and kept her company. She has limited mobility so I had to help her with simple things like scratching her back.. I sort of put on my servant hat out of pity.

So the dilemma.. I just got a 3 day weekend from work and she wants me to come back to see her tomorrow. The place is kind of a commute from where I live and I feel like if I show up everyday its gonna make me a puppdydog.. Maybe I'm wrong. Kinda weird question to ask but how can I create/maintain sexual attraction like this? Should I just avoid it? Give a day in between? I feel bad cause I know shes alone and I would be pissed if I had to spend an entire day watching crappy TV and eating crappy food when somebody could come visit.. What can I do to make the most of it?

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Are you out of your Mind !

A girl is in a hospital, she is in a lot of pain like you said; and you are thinking about Sexual Attraction ! Are you guys turning insane?

hell ya ! just be by her like a good friend irrespective of whether or not you get something out of it. If you have the time visit her all the 3 days and give her company


Some of the questions you guys ask are disappointing. Makes me want to stop posting anything, which I guess I should.

This is exactly why I didn't want to ask the question cause I knew somebody like you would overreact and think its the end of the world and I'm just hunting for poonany. You don't see the whole picture and there's only so much I can convey, so I guess I'm just the bad guy. So much for help.

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If your question wud have been - whether or not you visit her since its a commute that wud have been fine.

But your question is about sexual attraction and making the most of it while she is in bed in the hospital and in a lot of pain.

Either ways, go visit her. nothing wrong in showing another person that you care. Atleast at a time when she needs to be tendered. I'll guarantee you kid, she would not lose any attraction.

She has pain when she walks and she has allergic reactions, that doesn't mean she isn't sitting there watching real housewives and worrying about if I think she's attractive, or asking if I would date her if she looked like that (which she asked me). She is very superficial, kinda cocky but not in an obnoxious way. Almost like a natural PUA male honestly, and that's why I respect her. She's not hooked up to oxygen. She's not wearing hospital clothes. She's not on meds that make her stupid. She's just herself but a little more vulnerable and tired.


Part of why I'm asking is because we haven't done anything yet, and she's really attractive I know she has guys drooling and lining up and I don't want to be another one who gets nowhere and I feel like this might be flirting with friendzone-type stuff. Is there anything I can do to make my visits better for her? I don't want to exploit any of this and I genuinely want to make her feel better but not if its gonna peg me in no-man's land.

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