Hey guys,

There is a ton of loud nightclubs near my house. When girls are on the dance floor they are often in a group (2,3, etc) and there back is to everyone.

My question is how do u approach a girl on the dancefloor? Can u just go up behind them and start grinding.....alot of guys do this and it seems to work. The girl will usually look over her shoulder and if ur hot its okay.

Or do u touch them on the shoulder....and try to make them turn around. Do u hold ur hand out?

Really clueless on this. How do u approach on the dancefloor??

Before I knew about the pick up game I had no idea why some nights I'd go okay and dance with ladies and some nights get completely nothing.

I also see guys just going up to girls and just grind with them and it just seems to work! It frustrates me.

But something that has worked for me. When I go out with my best mate we go on the dance floor and just fan fun (well we smile and look like we're having fun because we know if we do this the ladies will come) girls naturally gravitate towards you when you're not being a try hard or acting like a dog.

When I was an AFC I used to try absolutely everything (approaching asking them to dance, saying hi, and grinding on them) and it would rarely work out.

So my answer is let them come to you if you plan on persisting with this dance floor game and when they do approach you face them and dance with them and if you intend to touch them start with their hands.

Having said that I have a friend with natural game and he hooks up everytime he goes out and all he says is "hey you having fun" then dances with them and a few moments after that he just goes for the kiss close.

no do not grab or come from behind, unless booty music younger crowd or reggae younger crowd, or if she has giving you iois then yes come from behind if she is expecting it, do not grab when initially opening, wait for a good song, that you like and is conductive to kino, do not hesitate, lip sing the song and make your approach look accidental... As you dance little by little start touching, and looking for reaction and complience, if the vibe is bad or the girl is not into you eject... i cover a lot of this on the lounge look for mr. matt post on club game i put tons of stuff there...

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when i go out with 1 friend or multiple (doesen't really matter) i just have fun we always take our favorite spot in the middle of the venue and that's where most HB's are (close to a raised platform, close to the bar and no ppl trying to get through )

when dancing, if u notice a HB next to you, "incidently" bump into her. look at her like ' wy the f*** did u just bump me (bit of a stumbled look) " after that if she bumps you or the other way around (which is logicaly gonna happen since it's mostly crowded) u'll see if she wants to dance cause if she looks at you again wehn bumping/ being bumped and u just look at her and continue dancing (slightly shifting body language towards her) she will turn her body (behind) towards you.

when i go out with 1 friend or multiple (doesen't really matter) i just have fun we always take our favorite spot in the middle of the venue and that's where most HB's are (close to a raised platform, close to the bar and no ppl trying to get through )

when dancing, if u notice a HB next to you, "incidently" bump into her. look at her like ' wy the f*** did u just bump me (bit of a stumbled look) " after that if she bumps you or the other way around (which is logicaly gonna happen since it's mostly crowded) u'll see if she wants to dance cause if she looks at you again wehn bumping/ being bumped and u just look at her and continue dancing (slightly shifting body language towards her) she will turn her body (behind) towards you.

I'm heading to a nightclub tonight.

no middle of the dancefloor and no bumping, no, middle of the dancefloor kill newness(do you like new clothes or car or used car or shirts you worn 50 times), no middle of the dancefloor, some guru advise that i think is weak, second, no bumping, you are a fucking man, with balls, no bumping go up to her and dance with her from the front... The only time middle of the dancefloor is if you are dancing with the girl to show you are a fun guy, or very early in the night before pick up time, to show you are fun...

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I had the same problem before. all you have to do is start dancing face to face and keep eye contact and always smile. 95% of the time within 15 seconds she will turn and start grinding.

Dancing face to face is hard when they often are dancin in circles wih their backs to everyone.. Just have balls go up behind them and start grinding.. If they want it they'll grind back if they don't they will just push you off.. Either way you lose nothing just go up and dance with then

This advice is garbage, every chump double fisting beers has the balls to sneak up on a girl from behind. You'll creep out girls doing this that would have otherwise danced with you if you had gotten their attention before trying to grind.

Personally I just groove through the dance floor and either grab the hand or touch the arm of girls that I'm interested in.

you are right about the sneaking from behind, is a big nono......Plus,No grabbing, unless latin beats when initially opening, or obvious iois..

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I don't know about you, but the genre of music isn't affecting how open I am to meeting someone in a club. I've had girls reach through the crowd and grab my hand. Did I freak the hell out? No, I turned to see who it was.

I refer to grabbing as taking hold of something. Not taking hold and pulling towards you. or molesting the girl.

Not knocking the waiting for IOI method, because it works, but not waiting can work just as fine. More rejection, but more success too.

Don't do the surprise grinding thing - please just don't!

the genre of a music has a lot to do with the hand grabbing, specially latin music, second girl towards guy interaction vs guy girl interaction is totally different, come on dude, go and grab a girls ass you will get slap, a girl grabbing your ass big plus, get it... NO GRABBING!

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What do you guys think of walking up next to a girl and bumping your hip against her from the side?