Lets just clarify something, I am not talking about money hungry bitches.. lets put them aside for a mo. We all know they are cunts and should be avoided...

I am just asking if it's bad that any girl should care whether or not you will be in a financial position to support her and family and for that to be 'part' of her decision making process?

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That's a decision you have to make for yourself.

But, if she is not with you, and she wants to be with for that reason, I would say yes. If she is your girlfriend or wife and later on down the road she ask for that, I would say is ok to do so for a short while if you can afford to do so. You don't want to see her family be out on the streets.

I completely agree with the above comment. Wise words. It's only an issue for her, if it is an issue for you.

Mmhmm I've had my share of what I called my ain't shit days back when i was 18-!9, just out of high school, first time on my own, all i cared about was partying hanging out with friends girls and making music. I could get money whenever i wanted but these girls who most view would be worried about money usually bought me shit after me telling them not to. If you feel like your on your road to success or have drive, ambition, that's all that matters. Shell feel she helped you get there, its something you two built together. Ambition is always more sexy to 99% of girls than your actual financial status. Like others said, if your down on yourself and make it a problem then it'll reflect and she see you as being insure of yourself and unsecure with your life.

Some nice answers.. thanks.

Yeah I see what you mean about it looking sexy.. it kind of explains why alot of woman go for these unemployed artists/actors without a pot to piss in. It's their potential they like. I am fairly successful in my own right so my concern is a girl who asks me what I do for a living very quickly and then being more interested based on that.

I just wanted to know whether you think it is bad in principle that a girl cares about your financial status in advance.

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honestly i have thought about this and i know its actually the opposite but the more financially secure the safer? there is the possibility the poor guy could be a psychopath or a rapist. i know extreme, but i think poor guys give this off. i think having a great job is a sign that the guy is a safe bet, but then there are the guys who don't work but have money and could be crazy. generally, thats older men.

idk if women take safety into consideration when it comes to having a job. and i don't think a girl wants to know if he works at mcdonald's, that could be instant dlv?

Depends on her end game really. Some girls want to know you are supporting your self in that you have a job, any job. Other want a family (which I say goes for a lot of girls), and such want to know if you are able to support such a thing or at least be able to finically help out in some way (Girls are starting to make more then men). Then there are girls that are not really gold diggers but they want to live a nice life and want to know if you can help make such a thing happen.