| Hello, i am new to this PUA community. i consider myself an average looking guy, who gets attention from women, but usually ends up in the friend zone on a frequent basis. i'm pretty outgoing and have a great since of humor, and other people seem to agree.
So here is my story,(ill try to make it short) i met a girl on POF HB 8. We hit it off pretty great, online then quickly went to the phone. In which she initially suggested to met up (after a week of talking on the phone).I didn't get to go that first time because i was busy that weekend so i suggested that we go next week. she agreed. We spoke on the phone for about 2 weeks before our first date.
So our first date comes around, i met her, total hotie! So we plan to go out ice skating, but ice skating starts late at night like 11:00 and i was at her house around 9:30. So i we went to go get some drinks, at a bar/dinner. the whole time in the car ride i didn't get nervous and didn't make any moves initially. All i did was make jokes, which she was laughing at all them. I considered this good signs.
When we get to the bar i start the kino, i touch her lightly, on the arm, and on the leg. she neutral to all my touching, she doesn't flinch. we we are leaving the bar, we are about to cross the street, the light turns green and we have to run across, so she quickly puts her arms under my arm and pulls me across in a playful way. she leaves her arm there, so we walk to the skating ring with arm hooked unto mine. We go skating, i hold her hand while skating. again neutral. she was a better skater then me ... so i had to let go of her hand a couple of time because i actually feel a few times. she was cool with it though, i felt little out of place since i felt that it kind of sucked that she was leading me in skating instead me leading her. so we stand by the wall where i ask to see whats on her hand. i grab her other hand as well. so i get close to her face she doesn't flinch. i go in a for a kiss, and we kiss lightly on the lips, i noticed she turns away a little.
so we leave, i ask her if she wants to go to movies she agrees to go. we go to watch a movie as we walk in i go for her hand to hold her hand and she hold mine. she seems to be enjoying the night. when we get into the movies, i i rub her leg and she holds my hand. then i go in for a kiss, but she though i was trying to say something to her, so i didn't kiss her. so then i wait a bit she lays her head on my shoulder, so then i go in for a kiss again we make out.
i leave there go to drop her off home, i go and ask here what she doing next weekend she said she had to visit her dad. so i was like ok. she goes and we make out and she leaves my car. she said text her when i get home. i text her i don't get a reply.
next day i text she answer me, like normal, like we always do, but then the day after that. she doesn't text me, and takes long to answer my text. she usually calls me most of the time, and now she didn't call. so I'm curious to know what went wrong.
a few points to bring up
i think i look better in pics then in person.
i have a lot acne scaring which in pictures doesn't show up at all.
so sometimes i think my pics can be deceiving without trying to be
also this not the first time it has happened, its probably the 3rd time. i usually kiss close but then everything disappears after that.
so any help please thank you!!
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