I don't know if this is completely normal, or healthy...

But I really like my girlfriend, emotionally and physically. I love her. But there a 3 things about ME which make me feel like she should be going out with someone else.

1. I check girls out all the time, and flirt with girls every day. When I'm at work, all I do is check out the hot girls walking past. If they smile, I wink/smile back.

2. Girls have given me their numbers before at work, and although I wouldn't call back while in a relationship, I always keep the number in case me and my girlfriend don't last etc.

3. Lastly, (im pretty sure this ones normal), but when I wank, it's 40% of the time to my girlfriend and 60% to girls which look opposite to my girlfriend (Big girls with big tits, as my girlfriend is slim and tall).


Is this completely normal? Or, am I right in thinking that I am a fuckwit of a guy and am still sexually immature and should just be dating.

When responding keep in mind that me and my girlfriend actually have a really good relationship, and I want her. She actually wants to marry me one day, and I have entertained the idea myself.

If these thoughts past your mind at any time it means your not fully happy with your gf. The best thing that can happen to a guy in my opinion is to actually find a stable good gf. If you have such a gf it may be a one time opportunity chance and it would be sad to mess it up. You have to ask yourself why am I not happy with her right now. Is she not doing enough for me? Is she not giving me head? Or whatever it is and then be truthful and talk to her about it and be sincere.

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