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PostPosted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 6:16 pm 
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So this is like a Field report it's my first and please give me some advices where i did wrong.
I'm 18 years old virgin, i am pretty fat, and i dont think i am that good loooking but it looks like i got her attention from the first time she saw me(That means in Night 1 when we met)
The Night 1 started with me and 3 other friends playing pool and we met our usual female friends in the same place the female friend were(Hb7 ,Hb8 and her sister HBS7)
we started drinking and i started dancing with the girls i wanted to have fun so i did what the fuck i wanted :) the hb7 was with my best friend in a relationship and the hb8 was in love with one of my friend.So i didnt really wanted to go for her sister (the HBS7)we sit next to each other and chat a bit my other friend who was single moved near her and tried to game her,
but i saw she got borred with him i start negging and joking with everyone around and one friend of mine who was the bartender in that bar said "Who Doesn't Dance now is a Homo" The Hb7 dances with my best friend the Hb8 with her lover the HBS7 was left with me and the other friend of mine who was trying to get her,He invites her at dance she refused and game me a strange eye contact...so i asked her for dance 2 seconds later and she said yes :) (the guy who refused is pretty good looking and he is fit) I kinda knew it was on.Thats kinda all that happens this night besides my best friend asked the HBS7 if she likes me and she says she likes me alot.(I wasn't really special dressed or anything i just wanted to have fun and dance so i think i had alot of Confidence).

The Night 2 started again with me and 2 friend playing pool and met the (HB7,HB8 and the HBS7) again so this time i knew the HBS7 liked me , we chat nothing special my other friend tries again to flirt with her but fails , i sat next to hb7 and hb8 we were poking and joking laughing around (i think those 2 girls were a verry good wingman)so we started talking about getting drunk and she send her sister to get only 2 beers 1 for me and 1 for her we chat a bit joke ...i go to the bathroom and when i come back i find her next to me and it felt like it was natural we kinda acted like lovers playing with our hands and i start touch her breasts gently so nobodoy at the table can see and she says "you are a verry honest person aren't you?" i was like" Yeah ofcourse... you dont like it?" she smiled and few minutes later i tried to kiss her she pulled back and i was surprise (it's my first kiss atempt and fail) i asked her "why are you pulling back are you busy?" she says "SPAM yes but i wont be busy later"
We move from the bar to the girls place and we listen to music her sister and the HB7 start dirty dancing and they invite me and my target HBS7 said "i can go if i want she wont be mad" so i figured out it was a Shit test and i said i prefer staying here with you pulled her on top of me and "KISSS CLOSEEEEEEEEEE YEAH" and it felt great i think i am a Good kisser cause she liked it,so a bit make out a bit of dance.
We leave the hb7 and my best friend alone in the room so they can fuck.After we go back into the room my bestfriend tells everybody to get out so me and the HBS7 to be left alone but she didnt really wanted told to her sister ,so we are left alone and i said " Girl if you dont want to do it we dont have to do it" i get close to her and put her on top of me and we started making out and she still didnt want to fuck i got her naked and i get on top of her kissed neck,breasts ,and and she said "i cant forget my ex" i said " i will help you forget him and get over him" we make out a bit and thats all we slept all 6 in one bed 3 girls 3 girls, in the morrning she looks a bit distant and shows me a picture of her best friend and asked me " if she is cute and if i wanted to met her" i said " yeah she is cute but you are too" i started beeing cocky funny untill we left 7 8 hours later i get a message "Hey how are you ,you already forgot about me?" i didnt respond that day next day i call her and i said we should met she said sure.

The Night 3 started same playing pool the Group of girls came and i gave to her it was a "hi" she sat next to me kino'ing me i didnt make a move on her because i didnt really wanted to get public with her so she was kinda moving alot and dancing so she can get my attention after few hours i put my arm around her and she said " Finally!" i said " you have expected me to do this all night right?" she said "Yeahh" we make out a bit and she becomes kinda distant and idk why i think she felt kinda sick and i ask whats wrong she says nothing we all decided to go back to their place and before leaving and i hold i contact to her and asked " why are you moving away from me?" and she says " i am not i am just a bit sick" She Comes to me put her hands on my head and we start to make out a bit i got a little insecured..
So we end up at the girl's place again all night we just drink and play games i tried to move closer to her and kiss but she moved away so we stay in bed me playing with her hands and a friend of mine was resting hes head on her, we kissed only 1 time and that was a punish by a friend of mine.I saw she was getting along with my friend so i move away and didnt speak to her at all that cause i kinda got pissed. Before leaving her sister asks my if i kissed the HBS7 goodbye i said no cause she was talking with my other friend and i leave without saying goodbye.
A friend later told she wanted to call my after i left because she thought i was staying at their place for the night.

Actually She texted me just now when i finished writing the report
She said "How are you.......!Hbs7" (i dont know what she wanted to tell with the ".......")
i dont have text messages to respond so i wont respond to her message untill you guys dont give me some advices
To Be Cotinued

Guys i need Advices what i did wrong?
-Should i call her?
-Should i freeze her out? and when we see act like weve never been togheter?

I think she wants a serious relationship but after The Night 3 , i dont know what to believe.BTW i am 1.87 cm tall and she is like 1.65 cm could that be a problem?
What should i do next when i see her?

Waiting for responses ( My First Report please answer)


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 7:25 pm 
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I think she wants a serious relationship but after The Night 3 , i dont know what to believe.BTW i am 1.87 cm tall and she is like 1.65 cm could that be a problem?
What should i do next when i see her?
The two smallest people on Earth. How would that be a problem, you're perfect for each other!

You did well, man. On Night 3 you started getting needy. It was once she started to pull away, and you started needing to be with her to enjoy your night, that you lost her. You should have kept having fun, the way you did before you put your arm around her.

There's not much to say here. This is going to work out, or it won't, and eventually you'll need to move on to the next girl. If you try to make a relationship happen, and she obviously isn't feeling it, don't push it. Make sure you have other priorities in your life, and keep meeting new women.

Enjoy this while it lasts, man up and move on once it's over.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 7:58 pm 
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I think she wants a serious relationship but after The Night 3 , i dont know what to believe.BTW i am 1.87 cm tall and she is like 1.65 cm could that be a problem?
What should i do next when i see her?
The two smallest people on Earth. How would that be a problem, you're perfect for each other!

You did well, man. On Night 3 you started getting needy. It was once she started to pull away, and you started needing to be with her to enjoy your night, that you lost her. You should have kept having fun, the way you did before you put your arm around her.

There's not much to say here. This is going to work out, or it won't, and eventually you'll need to move on to the next girl. If you try to make a relationship happen, and she obviously isn't feeling it, don't push it. Make sure you have other priorities in your life, and keep meeting new women.

Enjoy this while it lasts, man up and move on once it's over.
Yeah but i dont really know what i want... it's verry nice to have a girl near you and kiss her and that shit but i dont think i want a serious relationship with this girl... just when i want to have fun relationship..


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 10:22 pm 
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Yeah but i dont really know what i want... it's verry nice to have a girl near you and kiss her and that shit but i dont think i want a serious relationship with this girl... just when i want to have fun relationship..
So just have a fun relationship, until something makes it so you can't have a fun relationship anymore.

Don't overthink your decisions here. "i dont really know what i want" is the most unattractive thing to a girl. Decide what you what, even if that's just a fun, non-exclusive relationship, and settle for that and nothing less. Everyone likes someone who is decisive.


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Dude, don't go straight to the boob grab! that is never ever a good move, it provides them little pleasure, and makes you look like a horny 13 year old.


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double post sorry


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yeah i think that was to soon. ... but how i said that was my first girl....
any other advices are welcome :d


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The Night 4 Me and my best friend met the HB's again we started drinking i pulled out my phone and got a message for a female friend .. HBS7 saw me and i kinda acted like i got something going on with other girl.The HB's leave one of them told me that HBS7 saw me with texting with other girl and she got mad.Later that night we meet the HB's again and we go to a club ,we met them inside i was kinda drunk so i wanted to have fun instead of saying Hi i just started making out with the HBS7 (i thought she was mad but we made out like never before) i start dancing with the HB7 and HB8 and a bit with the HBS7 , we ended up at their place again ..nothing happend (BTW i kinda start losing intrest) we fall a sleep i put my hand her and and one on her boobs and kissed her but she was still sleeping cause she had work in the morrning (shes working , im still in school)in the morrning only a goodbye.Then we remain HB7 and HB8 me and my best friend joking untill we fall a sleep.(The HB8 is her sister ...she is so hot how may get it on with her? she already kinda refused me few times)

So the problem is :
-I've lost intrest in the HBS7
-I Like HB8(Her sister)

Shes my first girl but i kinda lost intrest verry fast , but i will still keep her on my list :) who know


Waiting for response Thanks


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nothing happend (BTW i kinda start losing intrest) we fall a sleep i put my hand her and and one on her boobs and kissed her but she was still sleeping cause she had work in the morrning
So your problem here is getting to the full close. Well let's break down your options for next time you get her in bed:
Mild: Go for a slow escalation in bed, full MM-style freeze out if you get LMR
Spicy: Through the entire night out, escalate without kissing. Touch her, get sexual, finger her on the dancefloor/in the club if you can (discreetly), but wait until you're going to bed to kiss her. If she tries to kiss you, stop her and say "Not yet." Once you get her in bed, lay her down, you on top, kiss her lips for the first time, then chin, neck, moving down (pull her shirt up and pants down when you get to those body parts, don't bother taking them completely off) and move into oral for her. After 5 minutes of that, say "My turn" and get a blowjob, then eat her out for a bit before sex. Don't let her orgasm while you eat her.

(Anyone else have recommendations for LMR routines in bed? I'm rarely rejected at that stage.)
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(The HB8 is her sister ...she is so hot how may get it on with her? she already kinda refused me few times)
Don't even try. Will backfire badly.


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