Lately it seems that ive had and heard that girls keep useing the "but I'm not that kind of girl" when I am trying to move from 1st to 2nd base. Ive tried the rinse and repeat with small but some success but is this something I'm doing and can avoid? And if I'm in the spot again what is some different ways to neutralize this?

I think this response would work:

"I know you're not and neither am I, but I'm a strong believer in going with the flow and this feels right".

If you're getting that same response repeatedly, it has to do with something you're either doing or not doing BEFORE hand. Dont worry as much abt ways to handle it once it happens, instead worry abt ways to PREVENT it.
One thing I can pretty much safely assume is that you're either not qualifying girls enough, at all or properly. Anything besides that, I would have to hear abt how you game girls in order to figure out what you're doing wrong.

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I like that response ill remember that.
Speaking personally I have natural game. Since finding the community I've been trying refine mine and understand the game better as a whole. So when you talk about qualify what exactly do you mean?

Qualifying just means giving the girl specific reasons that you like her other than her looks. It helps for a bunch of reasons, but one big reason is that it makes you seem more genuine and less like you ONLY want to get in her pants. So, if you're getting girls who are telling you that they'r not that type of girl, most likely a big part of that is because it seems like you just wanna get laid. If you give her specific things you like about her, it will help a lot. "I love the fact that you go snowboarding. You know, most girls are afraid to do things like that or if they do, they just do it for a second than go back inside and chill in the ski lounge. But you're adventurous which is awesome. I love adventurous people because they're just more fun to hang around with. When was the last time you went snowboarding?"
If she starts to act weird that you're complimenting her, the you just release it with a tease, "Ugh! I can't even talk to you anymore!" or "Ugh! Get away from me!" the tease doesn't even have to make sense, its just there to release any tension.

Notice that I actually explained WHY I like girls who snowboard. I didn't just say "Oh, you snowboard, that's awesome." that's what most guys do and that lame because it doesn't show GENUINE interest. Also, I Amex a simple follow up question (When was the last time you went snowboarding?) because again, it shows genuine interest. Not just BS talkin to her and pretending like you're interested just cuz u wanna fuck her (even if that IS the case, it won't seem that way if you qualify properly).
If you're on a date, or if you've been talking to her for a little longer, you can qualify her a little more sexually and call her sexy.
But that's basically what qualification is.

Also, how do you go for the kiss and then take it from kissing to sex? The way you do that also could be part of the reason why you're getting that response.

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'What kind of girl? The kind that I find to be attractive and funny and want to get to know better? In that case I think we shouldn't continue this..'

C/F. Try to be more cocky than funny though when you say this. I believe that 'I'm not that kind of girl' is a shit test.

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3 ideas for you man,

idea 1)
agree and continue (or ignore continue)
eg.

I understand (try to continue)

ok (try to continue)

you're certainly are not that kind of girl (continue)

idea 2)
handle objections with illogical answers and continue
eg.

No it's ok, we are both amazing people (continue)

No it's ok, i'm not wearing my shoes

I see you're a socks kind of person, I like bare feet (continue)

you like cold hands, I get it (continue)

lets put a blanket over you and make you warm, then see what kind of a person you are

idea 3)
break rapport or freeze out
(use a rapport break only as a last ditch effort)
eg.
I see, too bad, I was looking for that kind of person (break rapport stop trying, possibly go home, see if she calls you again and realizes she fucked up)

don't worry, we can just watch tv (stop fooling around, don't seem butthurt just seem like you are a sweetheart, when she wants to resume a freeze, just get her to pass the resistance you are stuck on, or don't continue *either that or just stay content with the level of compliance you are at*)

Ok seems simple enough it's a matter of finding that common ground (or at least giving the illusion) and building off that.
I'm a fan of just asking. Once that engery is in the air and I think I have the IOI I just ask her if she wants to kiss me. 40% of the time shell yes and we kiss, 40% of the time she says no and I respond with "I didn't say you could I just asked if you wanted to" and 20% shell say maybe and ill just go for it with success more often then not.
If she were to say something like "I'm not that kinda girl" it would happen after a kiss so I think C1PH3R would be right that's a shit test no?

Don't ask man. That way you are putting it all on the line and if you blow it there is a chance it isn't fixable.

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my friend has a line that he used when we were in high school to get girls v cards:
"i understand and i don't want you to do anything you're uncomfortable with. so whenever you're ready let me know"
from there still escalate the intensity a liiiitttllleeee bit but don't try to bang her again unless she's really asking for it (fingering a girl does wonders, especially if you talk a little dirty while doing it).

next date its a guaranteed closed. sometimes its a close that night. either way its the more long term, more guaranteed option.


i also liked the cocky funny line and the go with the flow one.

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