Hey guys, sorry if it's a bit long but trying not to leave out any important details.
Just started at college. Met this funny, hot girl at the first college party I attended. She is roughly the same age as me (21) but is on her second year. Ended up kissing with her, and sleeping at her place. We did not however have sex, as she told me she didn't sleep with guys on the first date (LMR). But we made out, dry humped and such
. Spent the whole next day together kissing, cuddling and having a great time.
After a couple of weeks texting back and forth, with her seeming very interested, we meet at another college party. We ended up hooking up again, and going back to her place, this time having sex. And the next day was also very cool with us hanging out, making out, eating lunch together etc. We were joking about going to this dress up party the following weekend.
After not hearing from her for a couple of days I send her a text asking if she has figured out a costume for the party. And she answers that it was a joke, that she is not going as she is too busy with exams. Then, this friday, she shows up at another college party (not the dress up one, sorry if you're confused
), even though she told me she wasn't coming due to the exams.
And here the problems start. After briefly saying hello to me when she arrived, she chose to ignore me the whole night and flirting with a lot of other guys. Seeing she knows all the people at the college way better than I do and her being very attractive, it isn't too strange. But in spite of this I lost my frame and my mind, and called her out on it. Asking her why she ignored me etc., and I guess I seemed pretty upset. She couldn't recognize ignoring me at all. Talked to her at the end of the party, and she kept asking me why I was so mad and such. Went home.
Next evening she texts me asking me, what was up with me at the party but at the same time also wishing me a good saturday night with my friends, as she knew about my plans. I had a really hard time figuring out what to answer. I didn't really want to apologize since I felt that I was not in the wrong (she was blatantly ignoring me in favor of other guys) but at the same time didn't want to make a big argument about it. So I wrote that it was my evil twin, that had attended the party the night before, trying to avoid the question and being a bit funny. I wrote her that I was having a good time with my friends playing pool, and was playing better than ever due to practicing with her (we had played pool, and she was the most horrible pool player I've ever met). But no answer.
The next day I text her, that a semi television celebrity we met once was on the television. No answer either. Don't know if she is expecting an apology or if she just isn't interested anymore after me acting jealous and emotional in front of her.
And now I don't know what to do. Just sit it out until friday where I'm bound to meet her at a party and pretending nothing happened, but where there will be tons of other guys fighting for her attention also, or text her asking how her exam went and trying to get a conversation going again. What to do, guys? Really want to have a chance with this girl again.
CHAT
