So, I have a relatively high confidence, no approach anxiety, I can make women laugh, I can make them comfortable, but... I don't know how and when to escalate. I'm afraid that if I do it too early, she would think that I'm weird. As a result of that I'm the guy that flirts with all of the women but rarely sleeps with any of them. Now this is not such a problem because having women that like me in my social circle attracts other women and sometimes gets me laid, but it's pretty much random. I need something to read on kino and picking up signals when to do it.
The only benefit of this is that it's relatively easy to create jealousy plotlines.

What I got out of all of that is the line
"I'm afraid that if I do it too early, she would think that I'm weird"
You can't get the girl if you're not willing to risk losing her. You enjoy the rapport you build with women and the attraction too much that you don't make a move. You are doing well to have conquered approach anxiety. Listen to me though, these girls will not think your weird. Test her by getting her to spin or come in close to you then push her back. Move her to a different part of the venue. Get her number, walk her to the bar and squeeze her hand to see if she squeezes back. Look for IOI's then just ask her how good a kisser she is 1-10 if she responds, say lets find out and go for it. If it doesn't go well, live and learn to calibrate for the next one! This is a journey and it sounds like you have a lot going for you so far.

goodluck

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