Hi Guys,

So I´ve been interested in this girl for some time and everything went really well. I was doing pretty well with her following all the PUA tips. We were officially just friends but really everybody could see there was more.
Im totally sure she wanted me too but then i did a huge mistake and kinda violated a golden rule. Instead of just going with the flow and eventually going in for the kiss or something whenever there was a moment of tension, which happened often, I didn´t do so.
Instead I told her that i like her more than friends... yes I TOLD her instead of just showing her or waiting for her to tell me.
Needless to say she friendzoned me.
So my Question now is: Is there any way of reversing that fuckup and getting out of the friendzone again?

You don't get friendzoned if you don't act as a friend, unless you were mistaken in the chemistry. You get friendzoned when you act as a friend and suddenly come out of the closet. If you think that she's scared but at the same time she's feeling something for you, just relax and tease again in the process. If she is really scared, freezed, that means you should act as a man. Don't freeze also.

My guess is you really acted as a friend all the way, reached some anxiety point, spilled out the beans and she ran. Going with the flow also means showing active interest, not just waiting.

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You can't buy sophistication.

Is your fault for not having escalating. Your the one who put her in the friendzone, and you think you ran game.

There is no coming back from friend zone. Best chance is just to tell her, you like her more then a friend and see what happens.

You made one mistake that you can identify, and probably a dozen or so that you dont see at the moment but that will be clear to you in a while.

You should have built some connection and some sexual tension.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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