One thing that is severely holding me up in advancing in PUA is an extreme fear of rejection.

I saw somewhere that you should have a few days where you intentionally go out and get rejected on purpose. They say to aim for 30 rejections in one day. Walk up to girls, say something about their appearance and immediately ask for a date or number.

Have any of you guys actually tried this? I don't know but I don't see it helping - to me it most likely would actually make things worse.

Yeah it would definitely help. At the end you would realize that rejection is not actually as bad as you are projecting it to be in your mind. At times a girl you are gaming will reject you once, but if you ignore that it happened then it didn't. You can try again and succeed. Its the guys that believe its a big deal who are those who fail.

Remember that any expert is just someone who has made all the possible mistakes in a field.

Example: I took a girl out with me the other night to a club. I met this girl on a film set where I work. She is a beautiful actress type. We started dancing around a bit, i was being playful and I go for a kiss and she stops me. I ignore it, dance around a bit more and try again, but she stops me. I knew she was into me because of IOI's and body language so I ignored the rejection said come with me. Took her somewhere with less people around and kissed her. It is hard to understand whats going on in a woman's head sometimes. It seems even though this one was really into me she was worried about PDA, and that we are in the same business. It was holding her back from doing what she wanted to do in a public area. The point of this is to show that a lot of guys would get frustrated, confused or angry having been rejected twice. Instead, by ignoring rejection as if it didn't happen the desired result is possible.

This can be the same when approaching, all you're doing is planting seeds. Behave as if you're used to succeeding and you will! If I hadn't once upon a time done that exercise that you are scared of doing I wouldn't have been able to apply it to a more advanced situation.

you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

cheers!

ps. I slept with her and that was nice

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