Ok, I'm very doubtfull right now... I want to hear you guys opinion on losing your v-card. Is it a big deal ? ... Last two times i been at a party i got the opportunity, to have sex with some random girl, that i hooked up with at the parties ( I'm talking about two different girls). But I hesitated and backed out... Because i don't know if i want to loose it that way, because i got this illusion of having my first time with somebody i care about... but right now, i really want to have sex, and i don't care about any girls at the moment... So should i just do it with the next girl i hook up with at a party ?..

My main question is: is losing your virginity a big deal ? or is it just something you have to get done ? ...

BTW im 15 years old...

sorry for the bad gramma, I'm European

Everyone's opinion will differ on this, but damn, you're only 15. That's way too young to feel pressured to have sex. If you want to wait it out and lose it someone you care about, then PLEASE do. The last thing you want to do is lose your virginity before you're ready just because social norms have established the illusion that if you're a virgin in high school, you're a loser.

It's not like you'll suddenly transform into a super hero once you have sex. There's no long-lasting benefit to having sex one time and losing your virginity. It's like 2 minutes of pleasure (sorry, the first time is always fast) then you're done.

I think I'm ready to lose my virginity... I mean I want to lose it, the question is if should wait to i meet someone i care about ? or should i just fuck the next girl I'm hooking up with ? is it stupid to lose your virginity to someone you don't give a fuck about ?

thank you for the advice !

That's all up to you. You need to do what feels right for you, not what feels right for someone else. Personally, I lost my virginity to a woman who was my best friend at the time, and I'm glad it happened with her. Other guys don't care and will lose it to a one-night stand, and they're fine with that too.

I lost my virginity when I was 15 and don't regret it.. Make sure that at the very least it's with a respectable looking girl. Don't let your first time be with some swamp donkey, because you definitely will remember it for the rest of your life.. do you want it to be someone that you can look back and say "nice" or be some girl who your buddies chirp you about for a long time?

Ok, i will think about it.. I'm not sure at this moment about, i just fuck the next girl I'm hooking up with or somebody i care about..

@remser the girl gonna be at least a 7, i won't touch anything less ! ... so it won't be a problem to find a girl to fuck I'm not that picky...