She wont hookup with me..? LONG post coming

I know this sounds stupid... let me explain

Ive been gaming this HB9 for a couple weeks now, the second time we hung out was last friday and we ended up getting pretty drunk and hooking up, did everything but sex and wow........... does she have an amazing body..... anyways since then I've had it on my mind that I want to fuck her (obviously).

I'm not gonna go into details but long story short, I'm only 20 and she's 18 but I've gamed enough girls (though I'm not PUA by far) to know when there is significant interest and when there isn't.. now it gets fuckin weird... we hooked up last friday and she started going out with her ex on like tuesday...?

we hung out this weekend at our friends house party (and she knows I know she's "not single" now) and I've never spit game this good in my life.. everything went perfect and all the negs/teases seemed to come out perfect, she was laughing at everything and I knew she was physically attracted to me, a lot of kino. I even felt comfortable enough with her that when we were having a smoke outside by ourselves and i told her she had mascara on her face... so I told her to close her eyes so i could fix it, then I leaned in and kissed her, and she just started giggling all embarassed. Nothing else continued but it was funny, not awkward at all and now she knew my intentions.

So she asks me if I want to go for a drive on our next smoke (I'm thinking ok this is the chance obviously). So i'm tipsy but its just a drive around the neighborhood so I don't really care and we park on the side of the road, start having a smoke. We are talking, everything is good, I'm gonna wait till we finish having our smoke before I make a move. So I'm holding eye contact with her a lot, the sexual tension is really high and I just move in and start kissing her chin and side of her lips lightly, she hesitated slightly but pulls away and says she can't because she has a boyfriend.

I've never gamed a girl with a BF before so I reverted back to this forum and said the first thing i could think of... the goldfish line "yea i have a goldfish..." and she just starts laughing and im like "what?? i thought we were talking about stuff that didn't matter...". And she laughs even more. Prior to this the whoooole night she is complaining about how bad her boyfriend is to her etc. and I'm just making the occasional comment but not really wanting to talk about it much.

This is where I fucked up!!! After she pretty much rejected me, I could've sworn she gave me every signal up until this point that she wanted me... (she asked to go for a drive after I kissed her earlier that night FFS!), but at the same time I could tell she really didn't want to cheat.. (Even though she said her bf and her only dated for like 2 months, broke up, and just got back together... how he never calls her and she doesn't know why but she likes him). So I'm kind of in an awkward place and I don't wanna give her any signals that I'm pushy or desperate so I leave it be..

It wasn't awkward but it definitely wasn't the same SPAM after she rejected me... She was asking me if I could drive her home so she could meetup with her bf and obviously I'm not gonna leave a party to do that after she just burned me so I said yea... maybe not, I've been drinking.

Now really lowered my chances with every other girl at the party because they saw that me and HB9 (who isn't single) were gone for 30 mins alone and they think we had sex, when really nothing happened.... I'm not sure if in the long term this will build attraction to them that I'm a "bad boy" or just some loser who makes girls cheat (I'd never met most of the girls at this party before).

She ends up getting a ride home from one of my close bro's, and her bf ended up ditching her, so she wanted to come back to the party, so he drove her back but as she came back me and him decided to kick it cause we thought the party was gay by then (it was like 1 am and starting to get pretty dead.) Me and her didn't even say bye....

I asked my buddy what she said about me in the car, he knows I'm pulling her and that we hooked up, so he asked what do you think of Jpills (not my real name lol), and she said something along the lines of I was funny and cute, but she has a boyfriend. I would consider myself a 7.5-8 if it even matters.

Now what should I do...? I have my parents house to myself for tonight so I was hoping if last night went well i could invite her over tonight, but now I don't know what to do... should I text her? I don't want to just give up because she is a certified hottie... do I need to build more comfort with her and hang out with her more before I make another move? I just don't wanna get friendzoned (i think it would be hard though after everything that's happened). At one point last night she shit tested me about my close friend asking if he was gay, when I know for a fact he has twice the notches I do.. (and it's obvious hes not gay) and I was like wow u think he's gay?!! So am I gay?! And she replied with like "obviously not...." while laughing and smirking, with the look on her face that she was remembering my tongue inside of her.

We've hung out less than a handful of times, but I would consider that a lot for only 2 weeks of knowing her. Advice?!?!

That's where you failed you missed your window of opportunity

Think about this why didn't you have sex with her that night?
Probably because you got the big head and thought you could have her anytime you wanted. Wrong!!

You said you've been gaming this girl weeks you've giving her too much time to think and she thinks you're really nice guy.... You should've tried your hardest pull her panties down and smash that 1st night.

You'll learn when you get older just making out with a girl is not much of an accomplisment

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Dude you should hit up all the girls and a couple guys that were at the last party. Just be like "Repeat of last weekend?? Come to my place!" and get a second shot at one of those!

Well i didn't jusst makeout with her, I ate her out and she blew me but... agreed i was a vag and didn't do it then. But is it actually too late now? I've known her for 2 weeks and we've only ever hung out on the weekends. We go most of the weekdays without texting and it seems like by the time thursday rolls around she's always asking me what I'm up to. Her BF is her age and I think she looks up to me as a bit of that "older, cooler guy". I dunno if I'm holding onto something but I feel like if I just forgot about her now I'd regret missing my chance banging this HB9, if she was a 7 or 8 I'd probably have moved on already cause it's not worth the effort.

Well at least you got some head good job.
I still think you gave her too much time to think after that.

You don't want really want to be in the spotlight partying with this type of girl in the beginning(after all she is cheating on her boyfriend it's good way for her get caught).

After she sucked you off.
You should have been trying to invite her over your place and finish the job. Not hanging with friends at party out trying to be mr. popular and cockfunny.

When she calls all you have to say is "hey you want come over"
or you call her and ask if she wants to come over.

You wait until after you have smashed before you start all that hanging out
it gives you more a mysterious vibe and betters your chances for fucking her.

I bet money somewhere along the line you talked too much and it turned her off. the less you say in the beginning the better you are.

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Thanks for the advice. I'm not gonna call/text her and just see what happens. If/when she contacts me I'll just go for the 1 on 1 meetup right away..

Learning experience, time to move on!

Completely agree because I have been there a couple times. You think she is into you but when she sobers up and thinks about it she realizes the next time she cant do that. If you fuck her though she will be attached or invested in you. Sounds confusing but soooo true