Long story short, really liked this girl for a few years. Took her out on a date last year as a complete afc and although I did light kino, I did not kiss her. Few days later we did community service together and I feel like I should have kissed her after when I dropped her off but again didnt.

Then she gets sick and is in hospital. I bring her a funny card, small teddy and word puzzles since she was staying overnight. Talked to her mom and gave her a kiss on cheek when leaving. she lit up and suggested we get breakfast when she gets out. We do that and I tried to k-close after but failed. I didnt kino at all since we were on oppostite sides of a booth during breakfast.

After that, I invited her over once but she said maybe and that she didnt want any pressure though. I considered myself ljbf'd and froze her out for 5 or so months.

Now we have decided to do some more community service together. This place is an hour away and we go for three hours. We went last week and it went really good. I held a sexual frame, accidently bumped into her and held my arm on hers for kino, ect. We both have class immediately after so I dropped her off at her place so she could get her car.

Now we are going again tomorrow. I want to try for a k-close but know that I wont have much opportunity since I dont want to at the service site esp since we have an hour drive back. Should I walk her to her door after? Seems kinda weird in this situation. Any lines that would work for this? I should also mention that on the drive last week, I didn't turn the music on at all. So for the two hours we were in the car we basically talked the entire time. If there was a silence, I made her break it a majority of the time to increase sexual tension.

Now the stupid thing is, we both graduate in may and will be moving to different states so a relationship really is not even possible(even though thats what I really want). Anyone have any advice on how I can k-close in this situation or if it is a lost cause and I should just remain friends with her.

I appologize for not doing a good job with making a long story short. Thanks for the advice.

You're over thinking things. Get into a state of mind where you feel confident that what you learned will come naturally. Then just let go. How can you expect her to get lost in the moment if you're all stuck in your head? Thinking of what is going on. Not that there is something wrong with that because it's necessary to do when things stall. But when things are flowing you go with the flow of things. Who cares about a kiss really. Don't think of it like a checklist. Think of it like an experience. You're having fun. If you have fun she will have fun. Worry about the kisses when she's begging for them. Do you want to kiss her or try kissing her, or do you want her attracted to you and wanting to kiss you over and over? Now, if you want to be all up in your head about it, which is fine I guess wait till you get a series of IOI and then make extended eye contact. If she looks away you probably shouldn't kiss her, get back into state and forget about it entirely. If she says "whaaattt??" In some shy like tone. Hit's you, pulls on her hair, covers her face in embarrassment, bites /licks her lip, looks at your lips, or even just holds the eye contact. Then you should have kissed her. Fuck if she does all of those things just grab her and bend her over the table. lol. If you think about it, these are all things she expects you to handle naturally. She is attracted to your ability to just let go and let everything happen. Stop trying entirely and instead focus on feeling good.

drop the k close as your objective

Be the positive experience in her life for her, show her a good time, be the go-to guy for fun and good feelings. Be in the moment and the rest will follow.

Thanks guys, really appreciate it! Thats basically exactly what I did. We had a great time, very flirty and fun but we went immediately to school so I gave her a hug goodbye(she pressed her face hard against mine?) then left it at that.

I have decided that I am probably not going to do much more hanging out with her though. I'm really starting to fall for her and don't want to since we are both moving to different states in a few months. I dont know if I want to pursue to see if we can fool around and stuff for the next few months or just back away so I don't get any serious feelings before we move.

Thanks again for the advice!