G'day guys,

I have been a member here for a while now, but haven't really utilised the feedback part of the forum. So any comments would be appreciated.

One of my main faults is when I go out sarging is that constantly my limiting factors pull me up and block me from approaching, sending me home disappointed and frustrated. I try to face my blame upon the fact I live in a small mining town where the guy to girl ratio is sadly worse for wear,
{I have provided a link in which our Mayor makes a comment on the ratio,
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/no ... lia-sexism }
But I am very aware my reality is my own doing and I can perceive the world the way I want. But well it doesn't provide a very good training ground for myself and my mates.


Now, I'm not completely without hope, I have run some game and had some awesome results in the few years of late (including a recent trip to Brisbane, where I managed to pull a cute, soon to be engaged 24yr old back to my backpackers room, curse shared bunks otherwise she would've been mine!!) Haha

Despite my previous success's I can't keep up the consistency in approaching and the droughts starting to sink in pretty hard haha
So, leading to the reason why I'v made this post is that Id like you all to share with me how you
-Pysche yourselves up
- Remain consistent in approaching
- Endorsing the 3-second rule

Etc, Etc


Cant wait to hear back from you and finally taste the forbidden fruit!

Cheers!

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.:'Ampho':.

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'Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. Get off your keister and work for it!'

Bob Kelso - Scrubs

Do you plan on living there forever?

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Trajan
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No, pretty much my entire family lives here so no,
no dildos strapped to my head! haha

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.:'Ampho':.

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'Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. Get off your keister and work for it!'

Bob Kelso - Scrubs

I posted this for someone earlier and I'm going to copy it to you because the same idea applies.

"Go about your typical daily activities today... gym, work, going to a pub etc

Everytime you see someone/anyone you want to talk to go and do it. Don't not approach that person one time.

Create some social momentum, maybe the first one goes bad... maybe it goes great, but i guarantee they get better as you continue to approach.

If this sounds hard to you... think of it this way.

Imagine in 6 months... you haven't yet made the decision to dive in and talk to women. How do you feel? Imagine a year of this... 5 years... how do you feel now? 20 years?

NOW stop. and Imagine that right now you decide that approaching isn't that big a deal (it isn't) and you start approaching the women you want. How do you see yourself differently in 6 months... a year.. 5 years.. how do you feel now having successfully approach for 10 years time... How much more fruitful has your life become in your vision of how much you've accomplished in 20 years!!!! "

Don't let the limitations of your town hinder your progress.. you aren't going to be there forever anyway.. this is a massively big world. Think of it as your training ground if that helps.

cheers!

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Trajan
datedocspodcast.com
Click here to test your game... http://bit.ly/NFuFh9
mailbox@datedocspodcast.com

Inspiring words there bro.

I'l keep in mind when out in the field.

Cheers!

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.:'Ampho':.

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'Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. Get off your keister and work for it!'

Bob Kelso - Scrubs