I understand this question seems a little ridiculous, self explanatory. However, I think most, including myself do not understand this phase, or know how to recognize it. I thought I did, but the more I thought about it, the more confused I became.

What is attraction? At the end of this phase, is the girl supposed to be latched onto you? How long does or should this phase typically last?

I write this because I have been working with some serious HB 8.5-9s who are smoking hot. I have been negging, teasing, and just plain having fun. The when I tried to calibrate to decide what to do next, I had no idea if I had attraction. I had no idea if these girls were attracted to me. Maybe I thought about it too much. Any advice?

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'Elaine that was the yam yam'

There are 3 phases to Attraction.

A1- The Opening; it's done once you run your open routines. Your set should always have the sense that you are about to leave, because you gave them false time constraints. You are looking for you set to hook.

A2- Female to Male Attraction- you neg the target and befriend the obstacles. You find out how the group knows each other by asking, "How does everyone know each other?" You wait for three IOIs from the target before you slowly return them. You are using DHV routines to establish yourself as an Alpha Male.

A3- Male to Female Attraction- you are returning IOIs for IOIs and IODs for IODs. You are starting to escalate kino, and are legitimately showing interest in the target.

You then move to the comfort phase also 3 steps. C1,C2,C3. For another time. After attraction is complete which can take between 5-10 minutes to complete, it's situational based on your target and the set. You should be able to complete a "move." Means moving the target to another area of the venue to do comfort building. For example, "I've kind of been ignoring your friend over here, mind if I borrow her for a second?" They'll typically say, "If its okay with her." I'll say to her, "I have something really cool to show you come with me" Take her hand. Go to a quiet area close by and sit down to build comfort using routines and stories.

Please understand this is very condensed but I hope it gives you a basic outline and answers your question. With that being said don't get too caught up in the steps as you are doing them. I made that mistake and should have relaxed and just run the course.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Here's what I do: Make a lame joke, or one that is very very common and played out. If the girl(s) laughs, you've got attraction, move to A3 (get her to qualify to you).

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this was helpful thanks

This is the formula for attraction:

(C-R)+Q+S = Attraction

Comfort
Rapport
Qualification
Sexual Escalation