My name is sil I am 19 years old and I have a fair bit of experience but not alot. I have only been laid twice and been in 4 relationships. I would describe my self as 'queitly-confident' though some people would label me shy.

I have been reading this PUA stuff for about a year now and I have tried to use various different styles that I have been impressed with such GM style or active disinterest.

I will now cut to the chase.


Okay so basically I am having real difficulties knowing what gaming technique to employ with this HB9 at my school. I dont necessarily want a relationship from this girl I just want to be sleeping with her because she is sexy as hell! Mixed Spanish and English, massive cupcakes, fruity-juicy latina ass, sexy voice she has it all! Me and her have a bit of history going back 2 years, I use to go out with her best friend but me and her never spoke because I was 'extremely' quiet and she thought I was shy but she did show some ioi during these days despite her having a bf. When me and her best friend broke up she said she hated me but then a month later she added me on facebook and started conversations with me and thats how our friendship/relationship grew.

About a year ago my friend was in love with this girl but he played the game wrong i.e. sending her texts saying he loves her everyday, telling her how beautiful she was etc and in the end she ended up leading him on, put him in the friendzone and it concluded with him suffering from depression for a couple of months.

Me and this girl now go to the same school, she was there before but she moved and returned back. We have sent eachother multiple text messages over the last 6 months, it started off with her sending them first and showing ioi but as time went on the roles reversed and I messaged her first 2 or 3 times during the xmas period and I think I came across as quite needy at times Anytime I have joked about the prospect of me and her doing things she has always disacknowledged that idea harshly and rapidly. An Example:

Hb: Go and eat some bannanas and fried chicken! ( racist joke)
Me: No but I'll eat you
Hb: No thanks!
Me: Liar
Hb: No Im not lying actually. Sorry to burst your bubble!
Me: YhYh thats what they all say at first

As you can see she didnt even bother to respond to the last message. That was about a month ago since then we still text each other though it is usually me who has the first and last text, which is not good. My question to you guys is what game do I utilize for this situation? Shall I go direct/GM style next time I see her?, Do I play the mr disinterested or go direct or indirect? I try my hardest not to end up in the friendzone but I have a feeling I am already there! Do I begin a freeze out?

I have no job and I still live with my parents and quite poor. Whilst everyone at school have the latest smartphones I am still going around with a mobile phone from 2007!

What do I do?

I really want this girl any advice would really help. Thanks.

Get your shit together first. She's not into you, don't misinterpret it as a test just because it gives you a chance. Get a job, earn some money, and go out into the world. There is no goddess, no perfect woman, so earn the resources to go out and meet other women who will actually WANT to talk to you. This girl isn't interested in you, she tolerates you. Your texts are just a small step below your buddy's on the needy scale.

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These hos ain't loyal

Thankyou

I have stopped texting her and I am job-seeking at the moment.

Any other advice?

Title: What is the best technique?

My answer: Your's.






That being said, here's my two cent. She doesn't give a damn about you. You said it, she's really hot and blah blah blah, do you even think your the only guy that try to seduce her via text?

I am 19 year old too, but I learned from my personal experience that texting game is just a bunch of manipulations and psychology tricks and you are obviously playing it wrong. Some of my girls will text me and I won't answer until like 2 weeks later when I feel like it and I never have any problem seeing them again.

Stupid women mentality: The less you answer/text her, the more she will be into you. (But when you do answer, you've got to use positive answers just to tell her your still somewhat interested in her. She will be thinking: Is he into me or he doesn't give a shit about me??).

Anyways, I'm losing track here.

My point is: You lost the game

Forget her and go game other girls.

You should check out Vin Dicarlo texting guide for more information on texting.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist