this girl i have been going out for about a year has become a pain. but i cannot seem to break up with her b/c a part of me is afraid i will not find anyone else the coming months.

she is a unthankful selfish *****. if you dont talk to her for a day, she thinks its okay to do stuff. like the weekends coming up and if i dont go to the club with her . she will make plans with her gfs and go out to a club. but would not let me if i were to go with my guy friends

she is a pathological liar and lies about the littlest stuff.

she deleted all the girls that have had the slightest interest in me. my friends that i have been friends with over 6 years have distanced me from them b/c of how much of a ***** i have become being with her. i go out of the way just to keep her happy. i drive miles just to visit her for a few minutes before i go. i am putting efforts while she isnt at all.

the only reason i am staying is because of the sex. i loved her alot to the point of suicide once and now that love is going away but i still do the running/backforth to keep her happy so i can get sex and i guess a part of me still wants it to work

i have been layed before but she is my first real serious relationship. i have been with her for an year

i have went from occasional smoker to a pack a day being with her. i used to workout, go to movies, hang with friends, focus on school, work. but now i just wait for her calls and if i am doing something i will drop it and go to her when she wants.

to add: none of my friends like her . they despise her and are always telling me to find someone else. my friends, coworkers, family NO ONE that i know of in my life actually approves of our relationship. her friends dont like me because i am off different religion then her .

i know our relationship wil end in the coming months and by then i wont have anything left good friends, school, money, health.

You sound like me when I was w/ my ex. You obviously know what you need to do. I'm assuming she is an incredible lay, but not good enough to lose the rest of your life for it.