The only good girlfriend i ever had was a girl i knew for six months beforehand and worked with so had time to get to know her. I tried a relationship with a girl I cold approached and it didn't work.
What I'm asking may sound wierd but where do you find a girl that you could have a connection with? I'm looking for a best friend lover all that and not just someone to add to the notches on my bed post. I'm at a point where I figure I'm just going to have to meet and date as many girls as possible until I find one I have this sort of girlfriend connection with. Where and how do you guys find your girlfriends?


A buddy of mine has a theory that you can't just decide your going to find one of these girls, you have to let the world bring her to you but I I'm not going to sit here waiting.
Frustration right now equals 100%

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

finally your catching on, don't ''girlfriend'' girls so fast just cause they put out, go get notches on the belt and when you find a notch that is awesome, then try to get her to be your girlfriend, just go get good at getting notches so the girl that is awesome actually wants to be your girlfriend, and weirdly enough it is not really about looks past a certain point, personality matters so huge if it is not just for sex

there is no way to avoid it, go cold approach and show intent, you know what it takes, now put some effort into action

and also your friend sounds lazy

It takes work, time, and a little risk on your part. No girl will have a sign hanging around her neck saying she's perfect for you. Still dude, your whole addicted to love post has me thinking that you need to get your shit sorted out before you go looking for a wife.

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These hos ain't loyal

That's pretty much up to you, depending on the kind of thinks that you lik. For example if you hate reading well don't go to the library to find a girlfriends but that's the good thing, if you try daygame there are women everywhere and I think they are much more genuine than the ones you find when you try nightgame.

here you have a video with some tips for daygame
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmd ... 4OKeDCWlQb

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

Ok pumpington in terms of notches I am going to Thailand on Monday by myself and plan on getting as many notches as possible. I will finish your challenge (do I have to start again?) as I am starting to feel a lot more independent as to being happy (meaning I am looking more internally than externally for reasons to be in a good mood)
And dj don't worry I'm not looking for a wife haha, but what do you mean sort my shit? Like get grounded or...?

Also I'm a bit of a whinger, things aren't as bad as I portray. This is something I'm gunna work on. God damn I am in a good mood today. Maybe I will start the challenge today.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

I think this is what you are looking for, read this "Where to find a girlfriend" http://wayoftheplayer.com/the-best-of-w ... irlfriend/

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"Stay hungry, stay healthy, be a gentleman, believe strongly in yourself and go beyond limitations.” - Arnold Schwarzenegger

Disturbing indeed.

You are going to Thailand and I can imagine what you are planning to do. Do you think that will give you experience? With girls?

Experience in finding a GF???

Seriously, GFs can be found anywhere, in the street, on the bus, in the supermarket, at work, anywhere.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

im not trying to find experience in a girlfriend sense by going to thailand. im just going to enjoy myself and take the opportunity while on holiday to try and game some girls.
when i come back, is when i will go into date mode.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms