Alright so I'm new to this forum, and this is the first time something like this has ever happened to me before. So I'm asking for some real advice here.

Here's the rundown:

Last weekend a few of my friends and I went down to visit a friend at his college for a weekend of drunken shenanigans. What ended up happening was I met a girl, who was insanely attractive and personable, something that is truly hard to find in girls these days. Anyways this girl and I hit it off we were talking the entire night, and even her friends were pressing me on her, telling me things like "why haven't you kissed her yet" and so on. I barely knew this girl, but said fuck it and pulled her aside and we made out and flirted for the rest of the night (she even tried to convince me to transfer to her school), she would tell me to take shots with her and so on. we ended up fairly drunk, yet I still remember everything clearly. At the end of the night she was putting on her coat and so I walked up to her and said, "hey are you leaving?" and her response was, "yeah, are you coming with me?", to which I replied "you want me to?". she said yes and I went and grabbed my coat and when I returned she was gone. Vanished into thin fucking air. I was dumbfounded, mainly because I thought this was a sure thing. We exchanged phone numbers and are friends on Facebook, but I'm just genuinely confused as to what I say to this girl.
This is where it gets really weird though, I met this girl once, she goes to a completely different school (with one of my closest friends), BUT! I cant get this girl out of my head!! There is just something about her, I don't feel like its the fact that I didn't seal the deal. I just feel stupid for liking a girl I've only met once and who blew me off. Its like a classic movie scenario, The guy that always gets girls, and then one gets away and he spends he life wondering "what did I do wrong" or trying to get her back and so on and so on. Just over all genuinely confused, and wondering what to do.

Please help a Brother out.

To take this feeling away you can do 2 things.
1) Meet more girls(there are over 3 billion of them) and you will forget about this ONE girl
2) Get her phone number, call her, take her out or whatever and game her.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

Treat her like any other girl. Don't treat her like she's special and get that out of your head quick. You've got oneitis my friend. Don't worry, I think I have multyitus. Thinking many women are special lmao.

As far as what you could have done differently?

"hey are you leaving?"

"yeah, are you coming with me?"

"Sure, Let's get some pizza"

Or what ever. She needs some plausible deniability. You supplicated to her at the most awkward moment of the night for her. Why would she ask you to go if she didn't want you to. The last thought you left her alone with was. "Do I want to have sex with him because that's what he expects now". Instead of leaving her with this thought, "That guy was cool, I hope he hurries up because I'm hungry. I wonder what he thinks of me."

[quote="rakeal"]Treat her like any other girl. Don't treat her like she's special and get that out of your head quick. You've got oneitis my friend. Don't worry, I think I have multyitus. Thinking many women are special lmao.

As far as what you could have done differently?

"hey are you leaving?"

"yeah, are you coming with me?"

"Sure, Let's get some pizza"

Or what ever. She needs some plausible deniability. You supplicated to her at the most awkward moment of the night for her. Why would she ask you to go if she didn't want you to. The last thought you left her alone with was. "Do I want to have sex with him because that's what he expects now". Instead of leaving her with this thought, "That guy was cool, I hope he hurries up because I'm hungry. I wonder what he thinks of me."[/quote]

I basically got the same answer from one of my friends. I Immediately recognized that mistake I made.

Really, I'm just trying to capitalize on this failure, learn from it. And then next time I see her, play all the right cards.

as far as texting, I was gonna go with talking about some of the things I remember from the night, nothing embarrassing, just topics we talked about. the only problem is I don't know if she remembers them. I'm just gonna shoot for best, ey you only live once.