Hello, my name is Oscar and i am new here. I joined this community because I'm
tired of falling in the friend zone and being told I'm a nice guy. I been
talking to this girl (friend) for over a year now with no intentions of hooking
up with her in the beginning, since i was talking to other girls and use her to
get them jealous, then I started to have feelings for her and everything went
down hill from there. She knows how I feel about her, but never said yes or no
to me, yet she still continues to go out with me whenever I ask her out for some
drinks, dinner or hang out with friends. We have a really good time when we are together. So my question is how do I make this girl mine? Ever since I developed feelings for her I have become a fool, I always been a frustrated chump. I cant never seem to say no to her and I'm always there when she needs some type of help. What are
the things that I should do? Any advice would help. Thanks.

P.S

Her birthday is coming up in a week should I get her something or is that a big
no no?

This is what we call oneitis.... when you become kind of obsessed with a girl you have not slept with. The only way to deal with it is to start your new journey my friend. You have the ability to get so much more with the right attitude. Start by realizing its not going to happen with this girl. She likes you as a friend and in your current state it would be very difficult to change that. Do not get her a crazy birthday present. Start by picking up a book called the game by Neil Strauss and check out my website.

Also, GET EXCITED because coming to this forum to be vulnerable and ask for help is the smartest thing you could have done.

cheers.

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hey man, i have no knowledge about PUA, so i can only speak as a Man. She disrespects you and you are thinking about getting her a birthday present? Yes that will make you a chump. - or as we say at my uni - level 100 friendzoned...
http://thechive.com/2012/01/25/welcome- ... 25-photos/
plz don't be the guy holding the laptop lol

Imagine if i treated you like shit, would you get me something? of course not. She knows how you feel, but she's happy with that. Change your attitude man and move on. tolerating disrespect is a sign you don't like yourself... but hey, you've come to the right place =), i think here, you can learn to have a bit more fun lol!

Thanks for the advice guy.