These girls always have a great time with me, and they'll add me on facebook the day after I first meet them. So I always feel that's a good start since there the ones wanting more. I only like talking to them when we hang out, I never message them unless it's for some odd reason. I feel like it leaves more for the next time we hang out. BUT why aren't these girls messaging me? Maybe there not as attracted as I thought? Or is it up to the man to initiate? When ever I do initiate they're always very receptive. So I guess my question is, how do you build enough attraction where the women initiates first?

Introduce yourself as mike oxlong and give them a cheesy wink, works everytime

Nah but seriously if you want a girl to be chasing after you, you have to initiate contact first give signals that your intrested and then walk away as if it was no big deal (girls want what they can't have, they want a chase) but as soon as you become used to girls chasing after you, it kindo makes them appear less attractive and makes them appear more clingy :\

To get girls chasing after you, that is the goal of the major part of the PU community man.

Here is how to do it short version:

A. Become a great PUA
B. Open front door and enjoy

Long version:
Spend time reading on the forum, go out sarging, learn from each mistake, dont give up, ask for advice, take the advice, improve. Repeat.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

You have to start initiating. A girl will miss you but hardly ever ask to come see you. She would love to text you but will wait for you first. Would want you to ask her out but she would never ask. Its just the way it is.

As for girls chasing you...I've had girls hit on me for either of the following reasons:

1- Social status: Dominance in a social group, friendly, witty, funny, calm and CONFIDENT.

2- Preselection: Be seen with girls (simply female friends), have a good time with them, other girls who don't know you will be attracted to you. Because you already seem like you're occupied with girls, she will most likely think that you're not thinking about her so she will open you up if she is attracted.

Hope that helps.

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Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine

Thanks for the advice guys. This was the most useful though. So I just have to keep doing what i'm doing, but initiate more. Thanks

Investment.

If a woman is highly invested in you then she will feel compelled to chase after you.

You get her invested in multiple ways. The big one is compliance. Look at chief's outter game guide for a primer on how to generate compliance.

The next way to get her invested in you is to get her thinking about you even when your not around. You can easily do this by having her do small task for you such as looking up something for you, finding out something for you, ect...

Another great way of getting her to think about you is by sparking her emotions. A good way to accomplish this is by using intrigue. When she is curious about you, or curious about something to do with you she will be intrigued by it/you and will think about you. I really cant overstate the amount of mental energy she will put into you when there is a high level of intrigue involved. Powerful stuff.

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Thank you so much, this is exactly what I was looking for.

Great Post Ezo, i pretty much had the same questions and you guys answered thanks!!

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Always willing to learn

Though I appreciate Ezo's advice, I feel it was a cop out. Obviously I was already doing the things he listed, but Mindless' answer actually gave me direction. Again I thank you both.

The reason for giving an answer like that is that it contains a lesson. You are looking for a quick fix, basically you are asking "how can I get good enough to get girls to chase me". There are many ways to do that and if you dont have it naturally, they all require massive amounts of work. There are no quick fixes. Even though you do what I adviced you to do, it doesnt mean that you are doing it right and nobody here can tell you exactly how to do it either. We know what works for us but you are not us. So you need enough experience to make it work for you.

Hope this helps.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

It does help, thanks