So after my ex of 3.5 years and I broke up half a year ago, I started studying PUA pretty heavily. I was pretty AFC when we broke up but a lot better now. I found out she cheated on me one night, confronted her, then left her the next day. she says she fell out of love with me a few months before we broke up/cheated and wasnt willing to give it another shot.

Now, since i have been getting better at PUA, i have been DHVing pretty heavily in all aspects of life and i think she has taken notice, I have heard that she has had a minibreakdown over our breakup recently, AND she want me to go out with her for dinner very soon, however, I have no desire or care to see her.

Now my question, should i go and possibly have a good time (could go either way actually) and show her how awesome i have been without her, or should i just blow her off seeing as i dont really care to see her. What would you do?

Notes: most of our friends are mutual, she has an attitude problem, and supposedly she's farked a lot of guys since we broke up.

Blow her off. That's more of a dev in your favour.

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Also because a lot of our friends are mutual I end up seeing her at least once a week anyways, obv not as a couple tho. and i would like us to be on friendly, platonic terms (if thats possible) as to not bring any weirdness/bitterness when we all hang out.

You seem unsure. Thats a decision you should make alone. She cheated on you, and now you've become a better person since. Does she deserve good time with you? Do you preserve your self respect and value? Are you moving on or trying to move on?

Think carefully.

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Yea true, im not sure at all. I guess im swaying to blowing her off, but i cant shake that feeling that id be a dink if i did that, i wouldnt feel guilty, just cant find a valid reason to blow her off, im pretty neutral on the situation. Im not trying to gain anything from seeing her except a platonic friendship. Im completely moved on and i dont necessarily think i would lose self respect or value. hmm still not sure.

seems this wouldnt be a dinner date as I mentioned earlier aswell, just to a pub for beer and wings.