Ok. I'm at a loss here. Been with this girl nearly 4 months. Things were going great, but she is super mad at me for not asking her out formally ahead of time for valentine's day. Apparently her girlfriends kept asking her what she was doing for v-day, and she had no idea what I had planned. My plan was to surprise her the day before and take her out. We go out to dinner often, I see her a lot, so this kind of is really confusing. She is so mad that she doesn't want to do anything and prefers just to hang out together. What is the right move here?

You tell her that she is being ridiculous.

And a bit unfair you were trying to make a suprise, and didnt want to fuck things over.

And if she doenst want to go she will be stupid because you put an effort on that.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Wow, yeah.. that's just hardcore beta-ization. I mean, how dare you make plans without clearing it with her first (lol). She is being a brat. Valentine's Day is just an excuse for girls to brag to each other about how awesome their boyfriends are.. and now she's pissed because she couldn't preemptively brag to her friends. Super lame.

Honestly, I wouldn't tolerate this behavior and I'd probably freeze her out for a week.

-Wolf

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