Gents,

A little background.

Met this girl at the bar and used a direct opener after she eye fucked the shit out of me. We started flirting and she was all over me... touching me constantly... i even twirled her around a few time... was a pretty magical 5 minutes. Got her number and then her firends and her left.

Potential problems.

This girl and I talked for only like 5 minutes... thats it... and shes a HB10...so i need a non-needy engaging way to eventually get a day2 where i can do some routines. i did text her once last night (the night we met) and she responded very quickly (1 minute) but now its been another day and i havnt texted/called her. Any good text lines/ things i could do at this point to get a day2? OR will this be hard bc of the amount of social interation (5 minutes was hardly enough to even build attraction)?

Any comments would help!

Thanks,
Duke

Well from what I know if you ever want to see a girl from a bar again you need to make enough of a big impression that your a guy she would want to see again. Take into consideration she would be drunk too so it has to be a pretty big impression.

5 minutes is enough to build attraction though to build an impression is different.

Honestly, I don't see chances in your favor with this one. Though you shouldn't give up. What you can do is say some bs about destiny and how you just want to have a cup of coffee with her and talk..something like that. You were direct with her in the bar..so just be direct again.

Next time ur out. Not only build attraction but build strong impressions if you want to see a girl from the bar again.

~Mr.Confident

Mr. Confident,

Thanks for the post! I agree with you... and I did text her today about an hour ago and she responded instantly again... we texted a few times and then i just stopped texting her (showing whos in control of the convo and that im not needy/to invested right now).

I want to do something for valentines day w this girl so my plan is to either text/call her tomorrow and see whats up. At this point tho I obv made a good enough impression on this girl that she is responding to my texts... knows who i am... and will most likly be willing for a DAY2. So direct is the way to go. Good Call. Like i said the 5 minutes we were together...were pretty "magical"... she was obv interested from the minute she eye fucked me as well...

Now whats the play? Any suggestions would be great!

Thanks,
Duke

Okay well first thing is first. Since your asking her out on valentines day, DO NOT OVER DO IT! stay away from gifts, chocolate, cards whatever.

Call her ask her out. Make sure you don't stutter, be confident. A call is more powerful then a text. Especially if she remembers your voice.

Add a time constraint for the date. It's your second date she is gonna want a blanket of security. You don't have to follow it just let her feel safe.

Remember even though it's valentines day, approach it as if it were a normal date.

Where to go. Where to go...Where to go.... Somewhere fun, non expensive, and conversational. I like going to a pretty public place so she is comfortable being with you. Nothing were your all alone you want to keep the comfort rolling. Now where you go depends on where you live and how solid your game is . Just an hour at a coffee shop and a walk around town will do wonders if you can keep a solid conversation. You would want to stay away from the bar for this date. Take her where ever you see fit.

Be confident, but not over confident.

Good luck

~Mr.Confident