hi guys
I dont know if I have been hurt as a child. I did have a terrible childhood, especially first and second grades. I lived in a country in the middle east, as a jew. now if you know anything about politics, you know they hate jews over there. imagine being constantly questioned and ridiculed by your classmates and teachers.
I have no idea if this is relevant to my fear of approaching. today I am by this mall and there is a lot of hotties. I almost approached. I said hi to a few of them. some said hi back, some ignored.
I dont know what to do. I am just starting to realize I am getting older every day and some day i will be like 70 and look back and realize how much pussy i have missed out on.
Is there a way I could cure this fear? for example, look at girls faces on the computer to desentizie myself? or ??
on some days, I have less fear. a few days ago I approached a few girls and told them they were very pretty. But it feels like that wasnt really me, today I cant do it. what i havent figured out is why this happens, does it depend on my nutrition, or how long i slept the night before? or ? I find that when i watch a comedy, the next day approaching is a lot easier.

If you're that unhappy with life, then sex will not fix things. You need professional help. Get a therapist, work your issues out, then sort everything through.

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I did talk to a therapist. her solution was to strike up conversations with people. I stopped going because i couldnt afford it and it wasnt helping much.

I'm kinda in your position, not quite as bad a childhood, but still shitty, and not normal. Therapy may work for some, but it might just make things worse and put you in a constant cycle, because you might think you're not normal because you're getting therapy,etc. But of course, depends on the therapist. Have you got any close friends? Thats the key there, make some friends and try and get out there. Helps if they are very outgoing themselves. If you don't have any friends you can go out with though, it will be kinda difficult.