Lately it seems not nearly as many girls accept friend requests from me. I try and add "random" girls in my area with many mutual friends we have but havent been getting many of them to accept my add. Has anyone else noticed this? also, I was thinking about sending a message with my request, something like "your name sounds so familiar, I am pretty sure the stories I heard about you would make you a perfect fit for my partner in crime . Any thoughts on this?

Yeah man...it seems like facebook is slowing down a bit braw...not to worry ay...google+ it or whatever.

As for the opener...it starts off ok but the whole partner in crime made me cringe a little

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Personally, I find the idea of some random person adding me to her Facebook kind of creepy, so I suspect this is where you're running into issues.

Try using the built in email instead, at first. Go about it as if you were networking, not trying to pick her up. Once you've established that she is interested, you can add her.

For mutual friends, send her a message saying that Facebook keeps telling you to add her as a friend; and that you can't figure out why you have all the same friends but don't know each other.

Friending some random girl on FB when you in fact want to date or lay her smacks of passivity. Is there any less assertive thing than friending somebody? Get off FB and on to OKCupid, where the real game is.

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I just add the girl as a friend and send a message at the same time saying 'poke!'. Usually you get an acceptance and a message back.

Style it out from there.... Like, 'Thought you were cute so I wanted to poke you, but it wouldn't let me so I had to add you!'

'Oh, hi hi hi. thanks I guess.'

'No probs new buddy, what.................

Obvs you can do this with a load of girls. Make sure you subtly keep the attraction going & away from friend chat.

Peace

Out

Why do you add random girls on fb? What the hell are you thinking you will get out of it? Do you think any hot girl will spend her time on a random creepy dud who added her on fb, when she has plenty of guys lining up and want to take her out?

You are just DLV. What you should do is press the button "Logg Off", stopp hiding behind the screen and then you should go ut to the real world and meet some girls, where you have the oppertunity to show them that you are a guy they should be happy to get to know better, and then they will probebly add you on fb. Considering that you are a likeble guy, if not you have other things to work on.

So stop being creepy and be awesome instead.