Ok, I was at a bar with my brother. Look over and see this cute girl. She's with some guy - looks bored. I look at her hip-line lustfully. Then I just relax, drink a few beers, and shoot the shit with my brother.

Later on she comes by and says something really stupid,"something something, blah blah." I immediately put my hand on her elbow and start stroking slowly. She's diggin it. Somehow the conversation ends and she walks off.

So I need to take a piss. I get up and start walking through the crowd in the bar. Lo and behold I'm walking right by her. She turns and says something - while she's talking, I lean in and give her a quick peck on the cheek. By the time she finishes her sentence, I've got a 3"x5" card with her number written on it. What kind of girl has her number ready with a 3"x5" card? A girl on the prowl, right?

So I text her, something like,"very cute, (insert name of drunk horny bitch here)". She says she's coming back to the bar, and does. Asks where I am, and I come up behind her and put my arms around her. We walk away from the crowd, talk a little and start kissing. I let it go. Look away. She starts talking again. We makeout. Keep trying to get to more secluded places. Makout some more. etc. etc. Finally we go to her car. She opens the front door like she wants me to drive. I just say, why don't we get in the back. We do, start to makeout again(earlier on I had gotten two fingers on the bare pooswah for a breif moment using vin di carlo's behind the back technique). But it doesn't last long before she says,"this isn't gonna happen." Too eager I guess? Not safe enough, maybe - some hoes? Like they all want to get fucked in a goddamn bombshelter with satin sheets... I digress. I just look her in the eye and say ok. Turn around and get out of the car and leave.

Sometime during this whole scene she tells me she just got out of a relationship - but didn't say anything about not wanting anything serious. Later I text her that I was dissappointed, but that she probably made the right decision(as if she has a choice about how she feels).

So we've been playing the text game a little. Met her at chickfila, and had some passionate kissing in the parking lot after a conversion oozing with sexual tension. She started giving excuses(while directing my hands to her tits and her ass). I said, don't make excuses, what could...blah,blah,blah(not in a needy way - a seductive way if you can imagine). So I say, we're making a scene, drop her hands and leave.

So I told her I wanted to see her again. She makes a VALID excuse, and I say something like slowdown, I'm already blah blah - if that makes any fucking sense. Anyways, Thursday she tells me she's going out of town Friday to see the family. I interpret that as a one day event. So I text her Friday evening and ask her how it was. She says she's with the family having dinner. I keep talking - I figure she's feeling like all I want is sex, so I talk just to talk. So she says she was told she's being "rude" texting during dinner. I say, it's cool, you'll get back with me at a better time. She says yea.

Now, is where I need a good read on the situation by someone much more experienced. It's been two days since I said that. I'm pretty sure I'd be weak/inconsistent if I broke my silence - I'm not going to, and depending on how long she takes will determine my response.

If you've gotten this far:

I want to know based on the above, does it sound like she's got another man involved, is playing hard to get/shit test, or is a player/not looking for anything serious?