exactly you have a million styles some of those styles that you have i like(the majority), some i don't(1 or 2 very few) that is the point i was trying to make, so what happens in defense to the haters, your having so many styles it looks all over the place so it does not see a particular sex addict flow, i do not if i am making sense, but i think that is the problem... About level, we all looking for different things, i am very happy with my game and meets my goals(having a gf, pimping her and my stuff on the side), so level is subjective, just like type of women or ranking a woman, if understand what i mean...

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She is 20.
She knows my family well.
She lives with her depressive mom, hates it.
My close cousin is one of her closest friends.
She does not hang where I hang.
I do not sleep with her.
I live in stockholm.
She tries to contact me about three times a month, and when she does it´s crazy.

It is a mystery to me, she is a beautiful model and could get another great guy in a second.

I respond to er attempts every third time or so, telling her to back off.

Best regards, common sense

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The reason she keeps trying is the very fact that she is desirable. And you show her no desire. She cannot understand it. She is convinced that you will see the light. If you felt that way about her before you can again.

If you truly want her to stop, all you have to do is get your family to ask her respectfully. It's also the commonality and comfort of it all. She is in the family sort of speak. They are the one's that can get her to stop. Specifically your Mom or Dad. ( if she has respect for them, she will be forced to stop if they ask.

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Thank you, I really appreciate your input. I will try to arrange what you suggest and see where it takes me.

I would like your input on another topic as well, would help a lot of people I think.

What does the progression of reactions normally look like for you when meeting women?

What I mean by that is, what is the first reaction you want, are you looking for playfulness, aggressivness or curiosity?

I understand that every interaction is unique to some extent, but there is most likely some commonalities in the vibe girls give you.

And please, don´t write only about the first reaction, but rather also about further in the interaction. And also what the vibe tells you and allows you to do.

So try to map the progression of reactions, the vibe.

Thanks in advance!

Best regards, common sense

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It all depends on the woman at hand and the vibe she is giving off before even approaching. ( if she is giving me the "fuck me eyes" right off the bat. I usually go in very Bold and sexual. But generally within my style I am looking for playfulness and full attention at first, I like to make the girl laugh and show my playful side. I will then escalate to challenging her wit and personality. Then I become sexual and bold, and generally stay at the sexual level. I will become extremely flirtatious and feed off her reactions. The thing is, if you have established a fun and playful rapport first, you can be very bold a little later in the conversation. She already has a decent first impression of you, and can see that you are not just a sleaze ball.

It's all about setting a certain comfort level at first. Whatever it takes. Then following the signs, give her a chance to show her physical interest in you. She will show it if she is attracted to you with her unconscious mannerisms. like touching your arm/shoulder/chest or by staring intently into your eyes as you talk to her. If the signs are there, it's time to step up the game. Become sexual but always let the woman dictate your pace.

Be sexual in everything that you do even if the pace slows. By doing this, you are letting her know that sex is wanted. If she sticks around or shows interest in going home with you, sex will be implied.

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I think the biggest thing that's holding me back from lays is lack of experience. I've only had sex once, and it was a bad experience. (It smelled... BAD! :/)

Any tips on how to get over this hump so I can have a more active sex life? Was there a "Aha" moment for you that had you gettin' pussy left and right?

Everything in life takes effort my friend. Sorry that your first was a bad experience. BUT most guys first experience isn't the best anyways. You have to keep trying, work at it. My " Aha" moment was when i realized, to get what I wanted from girls, I had to work at it and never give up. Just like everything in life, seducing women is the same. Effort=results.

Future reference: do a smell test first, get a finger in their then somehow get it up to your nose without her seeing. If it smells horrid, bail out. or try to get her into the shower. I have concluded that most women with smelly Vag's are not even aware and it is my theory, they do not masturbate.

As far as not having any experience, go get some. You can choose to frequent this forum and ask for advice, or you can get out there and TRY.

I for one advise you get out their, talk to every pretty girl you see. Accept that they are not all going to be interested in you. All it takes is one. One at a time.

Be bold!

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I caught myself doing a neg the other day at a night club. I realized I have done this many times, before but I said earlier in this thread that I don't do negs. I think this is a neg, still not quite sure, perhaps someone can tell me if it is or not.

There was this hot chick dancing, (25-28 yrs old) but she literally sucked at dancing. So i went up to her and said, listen you're really good looking, but you dance like a penguin. Either loosen up or stop dancing. LOL. Then i grabbed both her hands and shook her up. She laughed but was also in shock and stopped dancing completely. She told her friend, her friend laughed too then called me an asshole. I just laughed and danced away. I didn't even want to pick the hot chick up because of how she was dancing, it really turned me off.

I caught her looking at me quite often, and even said "hey you" as I walked by once, but i just ignored her and kept walking by. I probably could of picked her up, maybe even for an ONS but in all honesty, I was not interested. I am not sure if I am losing my interest or just getting too damn picky.

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This is the first thing that struck me in your thread... who would really want this much sex, and what standards they had - if any.

So you are picky now, but you never used to be?

Just what im failing to understand is... havent you met a really quality girl you want to be with? Cant you be addicted to sex, but just have it with one person? Russel brand was like this now hes with Katy Perry...

My biggest binge was like 15 girls in 6 months and after that I was ready to settle down for like a year haha. The thrill of many is fun... for a while. Guess I fall somewhere in the middle of the multiple women - monogamous spectrum.

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For everyone saying it's not possible... I'm 26 and I can say that I'm at around half of that number. It's very easy if you know how to approach women and keep one's or in some of my cases a couple women's attention. And trust me I don't screw "dogs". And if you want to challenge that I can show you tons of pics of myself with the girls I have dated or had a sexual relationship with.

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Every seduction is different, every woman is different. It never gets old.

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hello sexaddict,

thanks for posting in the thread. I read through your posts and will give you the credit you deserve. Your writing is legit and makes sense based upon my experiences as well. Although I am still younger then you, I have the matured mindset like you.

I'm 25 and I can have used some of your techniques especially in college. The "your ass looks great" thing I have done before and it does work awesome if you have a little bit of rapport with the girl your talking to and she isnt looking to be a Nun. They always laugh.

So here is my story. I obviously got out of college for two years now and looking for advice on where you hunt during the 23-29 stage of your life.

So you know my background.... high school sucked no game lol....college was great, I was a pig honestly, lots of hookups, I was an RA so I was in a position of power and got to unzip my fly because of it. It was easy, laundry room pickups, library picksup, residents on my floor.... for those years I achieved the "dream". (never hit up the clubs during this period all campus activity)

Now I am 25 and hitting some roadblocks. So for my status so far, was able to get a match dot com bang and a few club make outs (1 bang). Just started working the club scene...very late obviously.

1. After college, what were the best spots you worked to pickup? any great places you used to hang out at? Just looking for your target locations and markets. Specifics if possible.

2. Do you ever hit up college campuses again? I love college girls and have thought about this, but what has your experience taught you?

3. Would you still work the club scene at my age?

I haven't broke into the whole "bar" hangout, just hitting up dance floors on the club. Fortunately, I can dance well so I feel comfortable with this.

Reason for my questions are so many people say to just "Get out there" during the day. However, it really does matter not every location has girls worth approaching and some places can be a complete was of valuable and limited time.

Hey bro, thanks for writing. In your case I would stick to what you know and what you are good at. Depending on the population of your current area, day game can be tough. If you are in a big city, day game is great. Often most women in big cities are alone and migrated (from smaller cities) their for work. So day game is ideal as most of these women will not even go out to night clubs. But if you are not in a big city, it can be limited. You should not have a specific choice of game. Always be prepared. You don't have to go looking for day game but be prepared if it presents itself. Always dress sharp, even if you are just running errands, etc. You never know when you will see that "goddess" in a grocery store or walking down the street.

You've had success in college, stick with it. Hit up the college scene if it is local to you. You already know what type of game to run, plus their is plenty of fresh meat. There's nothing wrong with a recent graduate, hitting on students. You will be in a power position and your age is still not a factor. In fact I found most college girls, like older guys.

I would also stick to the dance floor. If you are good at dancing, you have a great pick up tool. It puts you in a great position, you set yourself apart from all the other guys, and give yourself an edge. Women love men that can dance. It's a no brainer dude. When dancing, you become 10% of all the men their. Besides, that's where all the women usually are anyways, on the dance floor.

But you don't have to just dance on the dance floor. I will often find an ideal location where I see a lot of women walking by, and start dancing right there, if the women have any interest in you, they will check you out as they walk by, they will first watch you dancing then make eye contact.

Your age is ideal for the night game ( dance clubs) but it's not limited to just that. If you are close to colleges, then use that to your advantage.

Don't worry about day game, but do not pass up any day opportunities you see. Never pass up any opportunities you see. But don't dwell on it.

Remember, always dress sharp. Always be prepared.

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lol thats hilarious, i do shit like this too sometimes. purely for self amusement

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Hey SexAddict911,

the girl I have been texting with has been hinting me to ask her out so I'm planning to do this as soon as possible, but I'm kind of clueless on what to do. She lives pretty far (hour and a half driving) so it has to be something more then just getting a drink I think.

It has been 3 months since I last saw her (met her on holiday and we kissed couple of times) but we have been skyping and chatting in between.

Do you have any tips/ideas on how to ask her and what I should do? I'm not really good at 1 on 1 dating and it's the first time it's with someone that lives this far away and whom I haven't seen in some time.

Thanks in advance!