Hi Guys,

So I got this HB10 that i been gaming for a LONG ass time to finally meet me downtown. Shes meeting me at a local bar, then we are heading to a fetish club together (out of curiosity of course).

I have already disqualified myself by poking fun at her and making it clear that im interested in her friendship, yet making small flirty jokes, and shes been very compliant.

Are there any do's and dont's for this meeting? I dropped the "friend" bomb and she has as well, but not sure if that even matters, i mean shes meeting me alone downtown, she can't be that naive, and she is a legit 10.

Any tips would be great and I will give a full update the following day (monday).

I would bet five bucks you already lost this one. Your efforts to seem smooth cool and distant will probably result in you getting absolutely nowhere with this girl.

How do I know? Well first off you say you've been gaming her for a long time. Game isnt' a long, drawnout process. It's relatively quick. If you're talking to a girl for more than a week and haven't made out with her, it's probably not going to happen. The friendzone is the result of not moving quickly enough, and that's exactly waht you did. Second, you remove the risk from anything. Take your point about the fetish club. that's a hilarious fucking idea, but you even say to us it's "just out of curiosity." If you feel the need to defend the decision by saying it's just a joke to US, odds are you keep sexuality as far away from your interactions with this girl as possible. Finally, you expressed zero interest. You think you DROPPED the word friend as if it were a bombshell? Dude this is the hot chick you probably followed around for two years brownnosing like a gay bestfriend. You are her gay friend, kudos. And the odds are way better she'll meet a guy while you two are out who isn't a pussy who will fuck her that night.

I award you no points, and may god have mercy on your soul.

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That post was equally depressing as it was funny..

i am aware that this is NOT how it should have been done. I played a very poor game from the start. Mind you, there were LONG gaps in which we did not communicate it.

Regardless, this is my situation, and even if my shot is 1 in a million im going for it. So any advice that I can use to enhance my chances would be better than slamming me.

Cheers!

If she's a HB10 neg the shit out of her! Run routines like the cube and the trust test and just be cocky funny and keep her interested by making her laugh and building rapport by emotionally connecting with her. You should be able to kiss close within an hour of being with her if you play your cards right. The absolute worst thing you could do is fuck it up by worrying too much about fucking it up!

Best of luck mate, go for gold.

The above advice is just bad. Treat her like any other girl as her being a 10 doesn't matter. FYI she most probably has a kinky side or kinky interest if she is willing to go to a fetish club. Which means if you play your cards right you be able to sleep with her. When you go to the fetish club physically escalate some and talk about sex in general and work in what ever fetish stuff and if you do it right you be in bed with her.

Good attitude

Get so touchy from the very first second. Hug hug hand hold backrub hug touch her face hug and so on. Stream of consciousness, constant touching. Don't worry about sexuality in the beginning, just make her so comfortable with your hands. Good luck man.

I'd neg her if she's HB10, most answers on your questions are already given tho

Neg is such a stupid thing. Most girls see right through it. There is a fine line between teasing a girl and negging her, and guys with "She is a 10=neg her" mindset don't know how to use it. and "the 10" is most likely a 7.

onthefritz, go out with this girl. even in the role of a gay friend. try to see the world from her perspective. you'll learn something useful. ask her for some tips. about your fashion, body language, whatever. ask her for a feedback. ask for the first impression she had when she saw you. ask her what did she like about you and what she didn't like. tell her that you read this book "The Game" and you want to improve your life...

Just cause you are not gonna fuck this girl doesn't mean that you can't improve yourself and learn something from this experience.

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