| you don't, avoid building any form of rapport all together over text/phone/social media, use them only as a bridge to get the girl face to face, you want her to be comfortable with you in person more then over the phone, and you want her to be comfortable with you advancing on her
after you have some sex or a good level of intimacy you can hit her up with texts and phone convos all you want, but before sex, just try to get her in person and alone, and work towards sex rather then towards ''building'' something that does not exist
by your previous posts you are in highschool and fairly in-experienced, just ask a girl over to your house to watch a movie and during the movie, just put your arm around her and sit there for a bit until it feel comfortable, then if that goes over well, just use the would you like to kiss me routine, (unless you can just work up the courage to just go for it without asking)
if the girl you are after flakes on you consistantly (has excuses as to why not to hang out) then just ask a different girl and move on, you'll catch onto how this works and how easy it is after a while of actually trying to move things forward
it is just a yes or a no, and the more you do it, the more comfortable you get, and the more experiences you have that lead to more yes's
GOOD LUCK
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