Sup peeps,

Just confused about events this evening and looking for advice!

Ok, I was at a friend's 18th tonight (just in). I was chatting with three or four girls.. bouncing between em for preselection.. when my friend's cousin starts talking to me.

Now this girl was about an 8.5, which is the hottest rating ive ever gotten so far, and i knew she was nearly 21 (im 18).. so i just assumed she was being friendly. Soon enough i had her sitting down and we were talking, and i was adding some trust test routines and kino etc. This girl then buys me a drink!

We sit in a different section of the pub. The convo continues and basically i talked about topics to put her on an emotional roller coaster. Just as I'm introducing pauses and more touch, the lights go on! A lot of good tension totally dies! So we all then move to another pub. She walks with her friends instead of looking for me :/... So i arrive at the new pub and she arrives a few mins later. We start dancing but she seems reluctant to get into it.

At this point i really felt like we should have kissed by now (about 2 hours from convo start). So i say " how good a kisser are you from 1-10"... she says i dunno :/.. i say " whens the last time you where kissed?"... she says a week ago. I say "beat ya".. which maybe wasn't the best thing to say, but it just came out! And then!..... nothing. She gives off a totally not up for it vibe and it fizzels out.

We then dance in a group and she kisses me on the cheek randomly. And so we head back to my friend's brothers house. I walk her there alone. We hold hands, chat and laugh. We get in the house and she sits on a single chair, and i set up pillows on the ground. Maybe i should have tried putting her on my lap.. but i didnt have the balls in front of everyone to be honest. Eventually she moves off into talk to my friends brothers friends ( who she knows, and are same age). I get a taxi home with friends without saying goodbye because i didnt want the awkwardness :/

Dudes.. this girl confused the shit outa me. Doing one thing, then doing another yano? If anyone has an insight to what the hell was going on i'd appreciate it!!
CCCHHEERRZ

Bro, pretty honest post. It does look like you made a couple of mistakes here and there but for the most part looks ok. She does know you want her. I am glad you left without saying bye, if you had, you would have came across as extremely into her and she might have felt as if she has conquered you already, when she really needs to feel intrigued and challenged.

It also looks like this chick has some game also, she was giving the good old hot and cold routine.
I look at you now, I ignore you later (solid game)
I seem uninterested in kissing you, but I'll randomly hit you with a kiss when you least expect it (text book game)

You are going to have to ground yourself and game the shit out of this one,
one thing that works for me when I come accross challenging girls is start going out a lot more and start bringing my number of interaction with girls up higher. This way I might come accross as lacking game, but bcuz I am fucking around with a bunch of girls at the same time I rarely come accross as needy.
Wish I could have step by step advice, but this is all I got for now bro...

ha, dude that's so funny. I never even thought of it as her "gaming " me .. I just thought she was another one of those weird girls! ha. It's just slightly disheartening because i had the exact same thing the night before and wasted my night. This other girl was a friend of a friend, we were alone, she buys me two drinks, calls me hot and gives loads of compliments. ONCE AGAIN THO! unreceptive to kino , and eventually i was just like "ill be honest, i like u and think your pretty as hell". She was just unresponsive with bad vibe (yet sticking around) and the whole thing fizzels out . Story of my life man. Bitches be trippin'

bitches be trip'n is right bro. So check this out, I go out on a date with this ckick. A lunch date turns into a four hour multiple locations date right. We end up in my room where I am showing her a few things blah blah, then I felt the sexual tension throttling thru my veins and I could see it in her face. She was ready for the kiss. I fucking hesitate and just like that bro, window of opportunity was gone. The chick turn cold on me afterwards. It was my fault. But hey, it was the best time ever. This chick is a 7 on my scale.

btw, I did not mean to say the girl was playing you on purpouse, I guess in my mind I am thinking she is just naturally doing those things that for us are considered game. Like this chick I was out with kept negging me all day... Just naturall game... I'll just keep playing and try to stay centered... see ya