Help me here guys. I've been chatting up this local girl who is straight up about fucking and she hits me with "come pick up and take to your place and then bring me back tonight". The problem? I live with my soon to be ex and two kids until my house sells and the 19YO has roommates. I suggested a hotel and she asked which one - I gave her one in the $100 range and she hasn't hit me back - she may be offended. I'm not spending $300 at the Marriott unless I already know her (and even then, it's a lot to get laid).

So any suggestions? Some un thought of public place? In my range rover? How do I suggest that without blowing the deal?

I'm 41 so who knows the next time I will have this chance with a young hot nugget. Help!

BTW - if she responds kind of freaked about the motel, I was thinking of sending her a link to my house listing (it's a really really nice place) and telling her if she's uncomfortable, we can wait until I have a night alone and I can bring her here.

First of all, the reason why she didn't respond to you may not have been because you suggested a hotel that was to cheap. 19-year-olds just have the tendency of being flaky sometimes. Maybe something else was going on, or she was experiencing last-minute resistance.

I agree with you that you should meet her first. Always do this, even if she is suggesting sex. You need to see if she is not going to turn into a freak.

Also, a lot of women mention that they would like to have sex with you, but then don't live up to it. When a woman says she wants to have sex with you, it doesn't mean anything until you have sex with her for real.She could just be fantasizing about you, rubbing her clitoris, but is too afraid to have sex with you for real.

Meet up with her just for coffee. Then go from there.

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Good thoughts. Could be resistance. Although her profile is straight up and the back and forth went very similar to another DTF that I did go see, fuck and left. No fuss no muss. There are rare ones and i think she's real. She seemed kind of impatient and annoyed that I had relatives staying her (said in her profile "you must have your own place and be willing to pick me up, take me to your house while we hang out and mess around and then take me home". I think I made it too complicated for her.

Shit! So I had her - she came back and said "what hotel" so I picked one that was middle-of-the-road, about $90 for a night. Kind of a step above a drive in motel but not a bad place either. She didn't look at the site just then (that was 6PM) and she went out drinking with her friends.

She texted me at 11:30PM saying, "U still awake, Mr?" and then we texted for a few and she asked me the hotel again. Then she looked it up and wrote back and said she was creeped out by the reviews. So I told her I didn't read the reviews - it's near my house and my parents stay there and like it.

So I then called 5 really expensive hotels in downtown quickly, figured out which ones were sold out and told her I called the W and they were sold out What about this other hotel (which was a pretty nice Radisson level tower hotel - they just happened to be $99 for the night on special).

Then she texted back, "No, good night!"

Fuck! I guess the lesson here is next time, no fucking around. When a smokin' hot 19 year old Japanese girl wants to fuck me in a hotel, don't be cheap -- go book a $300 room and get balls deep in that asian pussy!

Ok, so she texted me this morning with "I really wish you didn't have people staying at your house tonight!

So it's clear she is still way DTF but staying in a moderate hotel makes her feel like a whore or uncomfortable.

What can I text her (even if it's a series of texts) today to get her pussy wet enough to overcome the hesitancy of the hotel? It's a nice hotel, just not the W and seriously I don't want to spend $300 because who knows if she even goes all the way or is a NJ or something.

Cheers!

If anyone's actually reading this, just to end the story...so I found a hotel for $200 last night and she agreed. So I went and picked her up and as advertised (for once), she was as hot as her pic (8.5) and she was a Chinese exchange student. Fucked her stupid for 4 hours.

So the crazy part is she has this whole DTF persona on POF and makes herself sound like a whor - before last night, she'd has sex with 3 guys. Maybe I'm just a lucky mofo or it was just my turn to have some light shined on me but holy fuck that was some amazing pussy!

JESUS !!!!!!!!!! hahahah good story

which site did you hook up with chicks dude

LMAO

Hooked up with her on POF.