I am pretty tall and got this in a bar recently after a girl came up to me and started grinding:

'I could suck your dick while standing - I wouldn't need to kneel...'

How would you respond?

Um anything other than "no" would be a good response lol.

Even casually look around then pretend to unzip your zipper and say "let's find out" in a cocky but joking manner. See how she responds.

Wait... What did you say?

you mean to tell me a girl said this to you and you didn't get a blow job?

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Don't analyze every fuckin word a girl says to you. It's funny how many times guys seem to miss big opportunities because they can't think of a CLEVER comeback, a neg, or some other random shit. It's not being needy at this point, just fuckin man up.

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I put my head down in shame LOL. So no...

I said something lame like 'that's an advatage to being tall' or something like that (no call to action). She sort of caught me off guard with that one lol.

Damn that's me - overanalyzing everything. I've missed in the double digits of opportunities over the last ten months or so because I am constantly trying to formulate a girl's intentions or level of interest (rather than take things at face value). I overthink it and just forget about it in the end because I always assume I am misreading what is going on.

For instance, in this case I came to the conclusion in my head that she was just trying to tease me.

When a girl makes a forward flirty comment like that you just give her direction..

For example, immediately after she said that you would say " lets get out of here",(led her by the hand out of the bar), (hand her your cellphone)

You don't follow up with words per say unless they're forcing her to make a decision.. Like if you would of said "lets get out of here" with a smirk, her pantys would of been soaked.. Lead with confidence..

If a women makes eye contact with me I assume she wants to suck me off, I'll reward her with a direction for something as simple as eye contact..

Girls always go for the "lets get out of here remark" its in the movies, on tv shows etc.. They want to experience it.

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Man good advice! I'll tell you what else blew this for me... She initiated me by putting out her hand to dance so she was grindind up on me for a bit before saying that line to me. For some reason after she said that to me I was struggling to gauge how sexual I should dance with her after (or whether I should've started kissing her neck or something) so I disengaged a bit. She was hovering around me playing with her phone for a little bit then got bored and returned to her friends.

One thing I know is, like you said, I HAVE to take control of the situation in these cases. Women want that. My confidence is killing me. Even when things are painfully obvious I am second guessing the crap out of myself. Oh well - back out tonight!!!

I love the attitude bro! Go get them..

Just know that more than anything, women seek direction in life.. Thats why they love personality test and quizes.. They want some type of direction, wether its positive or negative.. If you appear to be a confident guy with his head on straight they will take any orders/direction from you as long as you believe and lead them with confidence.. How do you think pimps get women to sell they're bodies and give the man 75%+ of the profit? All these women aren't wacko.. The pimp just understand a womens need for direction and he presents it to them.

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Your response should have been your pants dropped to the floor.

It's not so much about wanting direction than wanting to alleviate uncertainty. Both men and women want this as it mitigates feelings of anxiety associated with fearing the unknown.