ayo bdays comin up this weekend so we are all goin out to the bars to celebrate, but the thing is is that I dont go out to the bars usually and im just a typical shy guy around girls, like i can talk to em but im a virgin and usually hot girls intimidate me. s

so aside from just goin for the 8's or whatever, I need help. Like what do i do? flat out. like when i get there with friends and chill for a bit and have a few drinks like what do i do? im lost. and my friends dont exactly know how to explain it to me. I need like a play by play or im gonna psych myself i feel.

i haven't tried to hit on a girl in a while nor have i danced with one or danced in general since almost high school. i just feel that if i got some major advice from ppl on here that I'd feel alot more cool and confident going into the bars.

ps:idk if it matters but we all plan on visiting about 4 bars for the night so i wont be staying in one the entire time. ill prob b plastered by the 3rd bar . PLEASE any advice or help would be greatly appreciated you dont even know.

Nothing anyone says is gonna make you a player this weekend.

Not to say youre not a player.

I've been nose deep in material and out in the field non-stop for over a month and feel like in perspective i know NOTHING.

Here's what you can do. It's your birthday! Go have a GREAT time. Hell don't remember it. If something happens it happens who gives a fuck.

You having a great time will resonate. They'll see it.

2nd. Just talk to EVERYONE. Guys, girls, ugly girls. SOCIALIZE.

And when the night is over, collect your thoughts if any are left, write down what happened, get some material, and start reading. You'll see how it relates to what you did. Read a bunch. Then the next weekend, hell the next thursday night, go out and do it again!

No one quick answer. No magic line. Sorry.

AND HAPPY FUCKING BIRTHDAY

Nothing anyone says is gonna make you a player this weekend.

Not to say youre not a player.

I've been nose deep in material and out in the field non-stop for over a month and feel like in perspective i know NOTHING.

Here's what you can do. It's your birthday! Go have a GREAT time. Hell don't remember it. If something happens it happens who gives a fuck.

You having a great time will resonate. They'll see it.

2nd. Just talk to EVERYONE. Guys, girls, ugly girls. SOCIALIZE.

And when the night is over, collect your thoughts if any are left, write down what happened, get some material, and start reading. You'll see how it relates to what you did. Read a bunch. Then the next weekend, hell the next thursday night, go out and do it again!

No one quick answer. No magic line. Sorry.

AND HAPPY FUCKING BIRTHDAY

Nothing anyone says is gonna make you a player this weekend.

Not to say youre not a player.

I've been nose deep in material and out in the field non-stop for over a month and feel like in perspective i know NOTHING.

Here's what you can do. It's your birthday! Go have a GREAT time. Hell don't remember it. If something happens it happens who gives a fuck.

You having a great time will resonate. They'll see it.

2nd. Just talk to EVERYONE. Guys, girls, ugly girls. SOCIALIZE.

And when the night is over, collect your thoughts if any are left, write down what happened, get some material, and start reading. You'll see how it relates to what you did. Read a bunch. Then the next weekend, hell the next thursday night, go out and do it again!

No one quick answer. No magic line. Sorry.

AND HAPPY FUCKING BIRTHDAY

Just go open chicks bro, its your birthday, you may get lucky..

Your not going to just get some instructions and instinctively know what to do if you have no real world experience.. That is like someone handing you a basketball jersey today and putting you in a NBA game instantly.. You may get lucky and score a basket but your not experienced enough to execute the coaches plays.

Just go introduce yourself to girls, talk to them. After 2 or 3 you'll be fired up and may actually land something.

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