Has anyone got any tips on how to find out if a girl has a boyfriend or not? But obviously without asking "do you have a boyfriend?".

I ask this because i met a girl the other day, spent about 30 mins with her, she became very touchy feely and flirty with me. She even took my phone number. Then revealed she had a boyfriend?! What a waste of 30 mins, i don't want to be doing that again!!

Honestly look at what you just wrote on this blog really. You went into Mode 4 I bet you got frustrated. You spent 30 minutes of your life talking to girl that had not one intention of letting you fuck her or date her. You went directly into the friend zone ouch..... Dude be a man open her intoduce yourself get to know her as a person then before proceding to ask for her number ask her if she has a boyfriend. Problem solved women are like that they make it seem like they are interested in you but they really are not. Stop wasting time with this indirect weirdo shit man up and go direct.

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yeah that sucks but remember, its never a waste! its all good experience you can learn and improve from, and who knows maybe when she's finished with him it will be game on and she/you can call/txt.

In the meantime you can include her in your social circle, or she can open doors to other social gatherings you wouldn't have had access to. She may have single friends.

To find out if she has a bf when kino escalating try using something like 'we should stop, your boyfriend might be back soon'

I'm extremely inexperienced with pick up, but in my experience a girl having a BF isn't always a problem especially if she's showing interest. Hell, I think half the girls I've fucked were either in a relationship at the time or at the tail end of one.

If you really wanna know, you say " I bet you boyfriend just finds you r annoying doesn't he haha?" Something along those lines. You basically accuse her of already having a boyfriend. Either she says "No he doesn't !" or " I don't have a boyfriend". Or you can just ask her if she has one, its no big deal.

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Derek I have to disagree here. It is quite AFC to use that line. Everyone uses it and people can see through it clearly.

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Yes, people may see what your trying to do, but their isn't many options to go about it

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

The solution is to not talk to her for 30 minutes. Talk for 5-10 minutes instead. Then go for a coffee/number close. Tell her you'd love to chat more, but you gotta run.

If you're gonna talk for 30 minutes, be more flirtatious, do more kino, so she gets the idea that you're clearly hitting on her.

Other than that, man up. Sometimes she'll still say she has a bf. Oh well. Move on to the next girl and consider it good practice. You can't win them all.

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