Basically I went out on very short notice and didn't prepare. Due to this I had a wank a couple of hours before and then started drinking. I honestly didn't want to pull .. funny how that one turns out. Anyways this girl takes me back to hers, we're kissing for like 30 mins and after that I do a bit of foreplay for another 10. Absolutely no luck at all. I'm getting sick of it now. The next morning I wake up and I'm ready to go but she says she's hungover and tired.

Two questions.
How can I get her in the mood in the morning?
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If you know you're drunk and you don't intent to pull but do anyway how do you make sure you get it up?

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dont ask her anything...just wake her up with your hands or your mouth... if shes not with it, shes not with it. this is gonna be a bit tougher with a one-nighter due to lack of intimacy but its your best bet

this is gonna sound stupid....but dont drink so much.

Yea, unfortunately she had uni and was having none of it.

The thing about drink is sometimes it makes me last longer and sometimes I can't get it up. I've noticed that I'm more likely to get it up after I've drank spirits rather than beer. Spirits sometimes make me have a raging one.

I guess there's not much I can do when I don't go out to pull but end up doing so anyway. I'll probably mostly drink spirits and also not have a wank ... if I don't want to get whiskey dick and let the girl down again!!

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Bro, dont worry about it.

I talked to a great friend of mine who is a sexologist specialized in "not getting it up" therapy. This is something that happens to everyone at some point in time (not getting it up that is, not meaning talking to my friend).

It is rather strange if it has never happened to you before. Alcohol plus mental state is the problem here. You did not expect to pull and so you werent in the right mindset, maybe nervous, maybe confused and maybe it just went too fast and you didnt have time to get in the mood.
The worst thing you can do is to try to force it up, it wont work and will just add to the stress, making it worse.
Try to focus on something else and forget about your dick for a while. If it happens, your dick is tabu, dont touch it, dont look at it and dont think about it. Do something else, just dont think about having sex.

If you have gotten an erection since that incident, meaning, can you get online and find some pornsite and get it to stand? If yes, there is nothing wrong with you medically, it is just alcohol or your mood not cooperating with your intentions.

Hope this helps man!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Hey man cheers for the help. Yeah I told her we'd go for it in the morning when we're not tired. I managed to get a good erection in the morning, so it obviously was alcohol but unfortunately she wasn't in the mood at that point and 'my chance had gone' basically. The thing is I knew I'd be able in the morning and always can so why would she not want it when we've went home the night before, plus it would be better because we'd have sobered up. Kind of annoyed with myself that I didn't push harder in the morning but because we weren't intimate I thought it would have been pretty weird coming off strong. I guess you live and learn.

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I don't even need directions from you, but I'm gonna get an erection from you.