Hey *Name*!
My friends bet me that I wouldn't ask out the girl I liked or Valentine's Day. 
I told them that from what I know you seem like a pretty fun outgoing person. You ARE *nationality* and from *neighbrhood* right? lmao. You guys love to have a good time.  I would know since I'm half haha do valentines day is close, you wanna go out n see a movie? Idk what you like. Id bet a girly girl like you would like Warrior  Haha Jp idk maybe The Vow or something sappy

I am considering sending her this message. It will be Alastair ditch attempt. All or nothing. It's open and if it fails I'll just delete her and forget she exists if it works it's perfect.
Now the basic thing about this message is its direct and it uses the principle of getting her to say yes yes yes over and over by stating facts It is spontaneous and btw she loves the movie warrior lmfao but doesn't know I know. Would prob make heels ugh. If she doesn't fall for this then she probably own as fun as I'd hoped.  

Hey man!! Im on a position slightly ahead of you, but basically the same thing.

I got her into conversation.... First of all, this takes TIME.

Over fb you are almost not able to build attraction since there is no kino. My plan was asking my girl out so I could kino her in order to build better attraction. But before asking her out, without having kino, u need to do some rapport without being needy.
If u keep asking her out it will be too obvious and you will come as needy.

NO interviewing such as "how's college" or "how's your family". It is BORING.
You need to be fun and act as you don't really care. NO long messages. She'll probably won't even finish reading them.

You want to game her. Just like all other girls. Think ALPHA.

Sending that message should be kinda alpha since she is pretty hot most guys wouldn't just sk her out blatantly and I don't do any appearance compliments

sure but u may wanna delete those "idk"

None of this will work. You have already set the frame that you chase and she rejects. The only experience she has to go on when she sees your message is: "hmmm, that's the guy that keeps messaging me and I ignore him." The memory becomes a series of unconscious thoughts, the original feeling she had the first time she ignored you hits her again. The only self fulfilling prophecy is that she will follow her instinct, act on it then rationalize it away logically. I,e "You're not my type".

The whole point of peacocking is to set the frame early on in the interaction where she notices you and begins the chase. Then henceforth she assumes she is the seeker and you are the chooser. If you act in congruence with this she won't question her own thoughts. Likewise, when the frame is set where you are the chaser, any neediness weakness ect will be congruent to what she was already thinking. If you don't show neediness she will shit test you, to test her reality.

You need to kill the interaction entirely. Some suggestions... I'm assuming this is facebook/

Block her and hope to see her in person some day - not so good because interpret it as frustration.

Delete her - better but she might not even notice

neg her without seeming bitter. - difficult because you are still coming across as trying/bitter since she ignored you and suddenly your personality changed.

Embed a neg within a comment on her status. - She might get pissed and block/delete you.

And then you'll see that these perfectly good suggestions will still not work because again, the frame is already set.

Now lets explore moving on and you might understand why this works.

She gets no attention. Aka no reward for ignoring you. - no risk

You'll have a chance to hone your skills on other women. - no risk

You will become less needy - definite bonus

Picking up other women and adding then to your facebook will attract her attention give you social proof.

Furthermore.... If you get a girl in the future and they just happen to be friends. They might talk about you. So far you've been nice and took the rejection with class. So even though you didn't get her you'll still get some social validation.

Moving on is win win. If you can signal to her somehow through attitude that you have moved on that is good, just don't go out of your way. I don't know if anyone has seen the commercial where the girl calls her bf and says: "I'm just calling you to tell you I am giving you the silent SPAM." lol. You don't want to be THAT guy.

Anyway, I was into a girl for a while and she kept rescheduling, saying she was busy ect. Even though we'd banged a few times. At first I bought the story but eventually I got pretty frustrated with her because she was giving me the run around. I told her I was moving on. She text me back "lol @ 'moving on' ". I blocked her and gamed other chicks. A week later here I am, I've got a gf that sucks me off every morning. Amazing how much can change in a week when you change how you think.

Here's my situation. I moved on, and came back too strong, asked her out, she said yes and ''rescheduled'' two days later. I went away again, came back but softer. Notice that in the meantime Ive been gaming other girls and meeting a lot of people.
It helped me a lot to get her into a phone call conversation, cause that gives her no time to think on her reaction. I gamed her a little bit through phone. Again, there is no kino, but Im bulding our connection back. Again, I went away. At this point I kinda want her but not that much. A comeback is harder than a new girl because the frame is already set. So you need to change that frame. Go out and meet new girls, gives you confidence, you will become less needy.

Again, it will take TIME. But you must try it, youll have a lot of fun meeting new people.

In order to create a new frame is moving away, so she has time to forget about that frame, and you will have time to create a new frame.

60YOC does little reframes on girls who are ignoring texts (no reason it can't apply to online as well).

Example:

"Playing hard to get already, huh?"

"First you were open and social, now you're all distant. You're such a tease!"

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sorry to say this man, but if it is ''this hard'' I don't think you really have a chance at all, fairly good chance she doesn't find you physically attractive, if she always flakes, and sometimes ignores your texts/calls/fb msgs, there is a really good chance she doesn't like you at all, I mean I know when im having sex with a girl they usually call me, not ignore me...

My dear friend i might be to late to tell you to avoid the typical valentine's day Bullshit...But all i want it to say is that ur One etis is not a One etis. Your just under the illusion and ur Feeling of not getting her, pushs you to blame yourself all the fucking time and feel like a loser, you'd go to the point of accepting beeing a loser and finish up with losing all sens of logic.

Dude! You need to go out with like 4 or 5 other girls and alternate them bitches like you don't care, I'm pretty sure you'll find a girl thats mostly BETTER than your Oneitis and once you will feel better and more like a normal Person, You will have that social value increased with pictures on your profile and shit (Wild pictures), THen i'll garantie you that when you will text your Oneit-Bitch she will Reply (surprise!) because women, Don't give a fuck about that you have feelings for them. They just want to have instant fun. So cheer up and get a hold of yourself!