Does it come off needy, reaction-seeking if I give a valentine`s card to a girl? (We know each other for a long time, were kind a together but then I fucked up)
Or is it just about how I will do it and what the card will be about?

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if you known her for awhile, then no.

I already answered this on a post from yesterday

"What you guys have to understand is being needy has nothing to do with your
actions, it has to do with what place your actions were executed from internally. I could give that same girl a valentines day card(the same one you do) and get an extremely positive reaction from it and you could get a " go away creep" negative reaction from it.

The difference is, I'm not doing it because I think its going to make a girl like me.. I tell girls I love them all the time, sometimes in the first 10 minutes of conversation and 9 times out of 10 they tell me that they love me back.. I don't "need" her to love me back so I can feel good about myself, I genuinely just love her..

You guys get it confused like " is this needy, is this alpha blah blah blah" Chances are if your still asking that question, then the place your doing everything from is an needy place. So the answer to your question is NO, you shouldn't give her a card because you had to ask permission to do so from a forum full of guys that don't know you or this girl.. That my friend is needy"

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Tnx Fuze. Yeah I saw your response to some other thread in which you wrote the same. You studied RSD right? Tyler talks about this in his blueprint.. I kind a forgot it, tnx for remembering

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Nope, just life experience lol No problem bro

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