Hi everyone!

I'm a woman and I promised my boyfriend's best friend (also my friend) that I would try to find him a girl on Friday/Saturday. I tried to look up tips online but with no luck. I have no experience being a wingwoman but I am kind of familiar with the game.

I would appreciate several openers because it is a small college. Also, who should open the set - me, him, or together?

Thanks in advance!

Haha very interesting post. The best thing would be for him to open a girl or a set and you come in the middle and start to try to look as if your trying to receive your friends attention. Once you start doing that the other girl will think" oh he must be special since girls want his attention" and she will start to compete with you at which point your friend has to make a move and at that point you just walk away. Now, just to be clear. Having girls next to a guy is a BIG help but DOES NOT guarantee the guy success. It is only a boost to his game and not a deciding factor. Also be touchy with your friend when his with a girl it will make her even more jealous and give her some intimate thoughts.

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Don't open together, but either of you can open. This is going to be hard for you to do, since it isn't natural to treat him as the dominant, most interesting presence in the room.

Keep things natural, flowing, never discuss game while in field, and try to meet as many girls as possible with him.

Know when to eject, and don't hang around him for the entire night if things aren't working. Leave him to make something happen on his own, then come in briefly to touch him and her, and take interest in the things he says, and then leave before it's too late.

Are you attractive? Be honest... if you're not hot, you're not going to help much. It's sad but true. Now if you look good and girls are going to see you as a threat. Well then have at it.

Thanks for the replies!!! You have given me some ideas. Do you have any tips on specifics I should tell my friend or the people in the set he has opened when I join him? Are there any things I should make sure I mention?

Edit: Also, any suggestions for an opener?
The one I have is this - friend has opened a set, I walk up to them and mention how I haven't seen him in X amount of time and mention how great he looks; I introduce myself to the group, ask how they know each other (they will say they just met) and I want to include something here about how lucky they are he's talking to them; then I will interest myself in whatever he's saying....and that's as far as I got.
1. Is that a good opener?
2. Any other ideas? If it's okay to use, I can't really use it more than once.

Danke!

You don't need to lie.

Do you know any guys that are just really cool? Especially if they aren't all that attractive physically? (Attractive ones will work too.) It needs to be a guy you would set an attractive friend up with.

If you have someone in mind (if you don't, this won't work) then try to remember how he touches girls, and how they touch him. It may help to look at pictures of him with girls you know.

Your goal becomes to touch your friend in this sort of way. There is a subconscious methodology for doing this, that is natural, because that is naturally how girls treat high value males.

In field, with your friend, your goal is to make him feel like a high value man, and then he will act more like one, just based on social proof and going through the motions to start.

Don't talk about game in field. Don't talk about how the night is going in field. It kills natural interactions and gets both of you living in your thoughts. A little alcohol can sometimes help to damper this unnecessary thinking, but remember that alcohol is like cologne, less is more.

it's great what you're trying to do.

Slip basically told you everything that's relevant.

Reading your post remind me of this audio. Love Systems Interview Series 24 - Jealousy Plotlines (Tenmagnet, Braddock and Cajun). I actually still have this on my hard drive. Didn't listen this for 2 years at least, but I'm sure you'll find lots of useful stuff here. Try to torrent this, if you can't find it, PM me and I'll send it to you somehow (since it's ~100MB).

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