Ok guys so i have a situation and id like some feedback to see what you guys would do in my situation. So i go to my local community college and there is this girl in my class shes cute as can be and i felt the only way to ever aproach is always direct. So i went up to her one day after class and told her i know this is pretty forward of me but i think your fucking cute and i just had to come over and talk to you. We talked for a little over a half hour and i thought everything was going well. So i got her number and the next time i saw her we made plans to talk one day after class so the day of that class i texted her just to confirm if we were still on to hang out a little after class before i had to go to my next class and long story short she didnt awnser my text. When i walked into class she still said hi and smiled but the odds that she didnt get my text is highly unlikely. So the only logical explanation is she got my text and she just didnt awnser for reasons unknown to me. The point is this girl is actaully sweet and shes so fucking cute and stopping is not an option until i get clear signs shes not intrested. To me because she didnt awnser one text doesnt count as enough signs to just give up, so i see her again on monday im thinking of going up to her and calling her out on it not in a mean way but direct and to the point to get to the bottom of things. My question is in dealing with this situation how would you guys approach this and where would you guys go from here?

IdenCross first of all cheers for the guts to approach. Now, this is where guys get really confused. Just because a girl did not respond to your text doesn't mean anything. Guys often mess themselves up because of this. They start to think the girl doesn't like them and start acting more hostile towards the girl. At this point the girl herself is confused because she has no idea what she did wrong. Now there could be some flaws in your texts which you have to fix such as

1) Doesn't get her excited - for example your texts are boring or seem needy such as " hey" or " how you doing" etc..

Also looks like your anticipating her to text you back which is not good it will drive you crazy. I know this because I used to do this myself. The way you should text a girl is just text her and forget about it and do something else. Don't wait for her to reply just do what do and if she replies you reply back. Also your giving this girl too much importance. You just met this girl why does she deserve so much of your attention. I know you like her but it's not a reason to show her so much attention. Just be chilled with her have fun when talking to her and don't be needy. Go out and game more girls while you still meeting with this girl.

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