I love it too

So that you don't hate on Eckhart, and give him a chance when you can (approaching in real life is more important, anyway!) there's a sticky by a poster named Stormy in the inner game section (Frame Control, etc). Read those posts, it's a brilliant piece of writing. He recommends Tolle, and I think you'll be more inclined to care after you read his post.

May I humbly comment on this one.

This is terrible advice.

This has nothing to do with inner game at all. This is what someone without inner game thinks that inner game is when he observes someone who tried to show off inner game without knowing what it is either.

Who do you have better inner game, the little kid who doesnt want anyone to pley with his new toys or the parent who gave him those toys?

Inner game is about balance.
It is about acceptance of your own shortcomings and acceptance of your own self. It is about the realization that even though you are full of flaws, you are still an awesome person.
It is about rising to the challenge and defeat your inner demons.
It is about the ability and strength to critically observe yourself and say, hey this sucks, better do something about it even if it is painful.
It is about being strong enough not to see others as threats when they arent.
It is about being able to appreciate people who are better than you without any feelings of jealousy.
It is about being kind and understanding to the ones who arent yet as strong as you.
It is about not caring for the right reasons, not because you wanna be the rebel and wanna take on everyone who thinks differently.
It is about caring when something needs to be taken care of and to know when it doesnt.
It is about being strong enough to afford being humble about your achievements.
It is about admitting when you are wrong. It is about swallowing your pride.
It is about realizing that you suck, fully feel it and find it acceptable.

Sorry for the tough love but the mentality your post encourages is what holds PUAs back from being average to becoming good. The asshole step is just that, a step you pass (hopefully quickly) while going from loser to alpha male. Dont get stuck in that mentality, it will make you a worse PUA and person.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

so basically your advice is to go out and aproach girls more..?

wanna link me up?

Lazy fucker...
frame-control-defining-reality-and-bein ... 34530.html

No it is not? What makes you think that?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

nice one theres like 10 pages of reading material >.<

well no offence but all you guys say things like dont give a fuck about what people say etc... but its not as easy as you say :/ you guys are already there, its easy for you to say but i'm only starting so i think i need to read the mm or the natural art of seduction before i can really try anything as i know nothing about the game

We've all had to start that way. I still have bad approach anxiety at the beginning of a night.

Honestly, knowing nothing can help. You have less to overthink. Reading won't help until you have real life experience for a foundation.

I can see why you think so but dont count me in with them. I am not one of those who say that. In this post I was merely stating what you need to do, not how to do it. Let me give you a few links to some of my earlier posts dealing with how to get started.

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i-suck-my-way-to-the-top-vt78266.html?highlight=
dig-deeper-vt78688.html?highlight=
facing-fears-getting-started-vt79129.html?highlight=
allow-yourself-to-be-afraid-vt77784.html?highlight=
giving-advice-vt77101.html?highlight=

i-do-care-no-more-i-dont-give-a-fk-vt71 ... highlight=

pillars-of-confidence-vt70441.html?highlight=

alpha-beyond-alpha-vt64763.html?highlight=

you-can-afford-pride-vt67487.html?highlight=

Now that took forever to dig up so make sure you read them, you asked for advice and this is it.

Ezo

I read your first article... its pretty good and you sound a lot like Tyler Durden but im stuck at that place where i cant take losing and i think i'm always right >.< but i still think i need to read something like the mystery method or gamblers book to know the main ideas and understand your language hahaha

Yes, the more you read, the better. But as far as my posts are concerned, start from the bottom, they are the most important ones.

And yes, I started out with the MM myself.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

thanks for all your help mate im giving you all my reputation, you'll need it more than me