OK so my buddy introduced me to his cousin Hayley a few months back. They came out to a party I was throwing at my lake house... I gamed her a little but blew her off for the twins I'd invited. So before I ejected she had gotten my FB. I noticed two weeks ago she became single. So I saw her out at a bar last weekend and got her number before leaving with another girl (she didn't see me leave with anyone). I had planed to take her home but she had been drug to the bar by her friends who weren't letting her leave so soon (2am)

So... I've been texting her and I've built up some pretty good sexual dialogue with her. She's called me sexy ext. We joked about picturing each other in bed and the shower... all the normal stuff. She has already agreed we need to hang out but every time I ask her over she flakes!

This past week... I'm texting her about Jersey shore or some BS reality show... she tells me she is board and wants to get out of the house. I'm like "cool lets go grab lunch I'm hungry" she doesn't reply for an hour then hits me back, "Hey! Wut up" I'm like "Oh I'm out shooting pool with some friends. You should come shark us... I know you got mad skills" and once again she didn't reply.

Fast forward to today. Its Superbowl Sunday and one of my Ben's who is a waitress at my favorite club is having a party there. So I get a text from Hayley again this morning. "Hey you. Why so strange" I told her I've been busy ext. I said I was going to a friends birthday party later but was free tonight if she wanted to kick it. That was at 2pm... I just got a text at midnight. "What's kickin" I replied "oh just got back from Lauren's party. You?"

(One thing to note: I added a kissy face pic of me and Lauren to my FB to add insult to injury to the sisters I'm fucking but Hayley can see that too so I told her about the party normally I wouldn't have)

So she asked if the club was busy... blah blah blah. So I finished our conversation asking if she wanted to go with me to a big night club off the river market in little rock in two weeks. Once again... no reply!

Wtf is up with this broad? She volunteered her number, hits me up almost daily, plays along with my sexual jokes but bails as soon as I ask her out. She is cute with a rocking body but I'd really only give her an 7 maybe 8. So she shouldn't be this hard. Any ideas guys?

Shoulda took her when you had the chance....now she's just fucking with you and joking about it with her friends.

Lauren's at my place now making love to my wang with her mouth.

LOL the funny thing is I'm cool with that

The logistics at the time would have made it hard. She rode up there with her girlfriends and they were not letting her go. Every time I took her to the dance floor or outside to talk they'd follow.

That's why I ejected and found a new target.

Update:

So I've been keeping an eye on her fb and noticed she had posted a few comments about a "new special someone" along with talking about moving into a new house she just rented. So today she posted saying she just got a new job and she starts next weekend blah blah yay!

I commented:

Damn cheeka! New house, new man and a new job! Your worlds rockn'! What's next? LOL I'm glad to see you're doing good!

So I instantly get a text from her.

Lol I dnt have a man. I got fucked over last night. Ughhhh fuckin guys!!

I sent her this: Damn babe! That blows

She didn't say anything on fb about not having a new man she did it through text. I haven't heard from her in a few days. So should I keep ignoring her or try to set up another date?

Dude that was opportunity to come to the rescue, I don't know if you caught that.. Girls always drop clues and hints and expect us to pick up on it.

"Lol I dnt have a man. I got fucked over last night. Ughhhh fuckin guys!!" That was a full blown score right there lol

All you had to say was something like " lol aww you should show me around your new place" ... right after she said that..

Wutever, you'll get her

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Yup! that's what I thought too!

Took the conversation to asking about her new place. Found out it's a few miles down the road from mine. So I was like sweet! Hmu when you get moved in and we'll kick it. Now the convo has started to go stale. Talking about her getting her hair done later this week. I think my issue with this girl is she is boring and doesn't play along with my subtle jokes. Its like they go over her head. A lot of my game comes from witt. And I don't think we mesh on that level.

:/

I'm thinking about pulling out all the stops and being blunt. But I'm scared too with her comment that guys fuck her over. I want to say "hey enough of this, come over and lets do like they do on the discovery channel... rawwrrrr! ". You think I'd shoot my foot with that one? LOL

She is still seeing whatever guy she was. You are either a back up plan or just for an ego boast. I once dealt with one of these and finally got her out, kissed, had fun and then next week she is doing the same shit. I suggest you don't put much effort or worry into this one.

Yeah you're probably right. What do you think of my plan I typed above in my edit?

So... just got back from another "awesome" night with this girl...

I'm dumbstruck I swear she doesn't play by conventional rules! So a few weeks ago I went out with her, she got plastered and I let one of her girlfriends drive her home. A few nights later I see her at the club and she gives me a big hug, I walk around to see who's there come back to her table and she's gone. Look around for about 30 minutes while I mingled. Then texted her "Hey this party's just starting..." never got a reply. So she's been on freeze since.

Fast forward to tonight. 9pm I get a text. "Hey! Meet me at Longshots! I want to see you". Before I could reply she calls. I ended up agreeing. And off I went on another escapade of dirty dancing, comfort building, kino escalation. And once again she pulled away!

We were dancing she said she was hot and wanted to go out side to cool off. I let her go.... about thirty minutes later I rejoined her outside. She was being a bit distant so I started chatting her friend who after a long talk spilled the beans in her not so sober state.

The story I got is this chicks ex's have all basically shit on her. It's left her very intrusting and scarred. So when she gets that "I want him" feeling she goes into shut down mode and pulls away. Friend says she's really into me but thinks she's still to hurt to give me the chance.

So how do I proceed? Do

You're rewarding her for "bad" behaviour. Every time you give her attention after she does something you don't approve of it just fuels her actions. Next time freeze her out a bit, don't sulk just don't react positively to flaky freakish behaviour.

Game other girls, fuck. This chick is doing the bare minimum but you'll find ten by next week who aren't as much trouble if you go out and look.

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If you like the challenge of this one then game on, but be warned she most likely will have issues!

Also if you are looking to bang her a few times and bounce in a month, then maybe it's better to find a non-damaged girl. Let this one meet some sweet afc guy so she can regain her trust in men. Just my thoughts.

too many issues. next!