I'm about to kick my own ass for this one. I'm trying to work my magic on a girl I go to school with, we're 22 and 23 years old. During the course of a conversation one time, she ended up telling me when her birthday is, which just so happened to be 2 weeks away at the time.

The day before her birthday, I was talking to her and asked if she had any plans for it, etc. The point of me telling you this is that I acknowledged the fact that I KNEW her birthday was the next day.

So the next day rolls around, and what do I do? Absolutely fucking nothing. My rationale for not doing so is something I'd rather not get into, but the point is, I didn't even wish her a happy birthday. Since then, she's brought this fact up several times about how she can't believe I didn't acknowledge her etc. She says it playfully but I can tell she was kind of hurt by it.

It's now 2 weeks later since this happened and she's still going on and on about it. I don't even know what to say or how to handle it when she does this. So what do I do? And should I try to make it up to her somehow?

I'll think of something. I've got 2 Masters degrees, and one of them is in Bullshitting. Stay tuned...

Yeah, definitely not going to ignore her comments. Enough damage has been done and I look like a big enough douche as it is; no need to make it any worse.

Thanks for the response. I was planning on having her go out with me for a nice night, it's just an awkward situation for me to present it to her.

"So...you know how I forgot your birthday? Well, not forgot, but...fuck."

Take it in stride as she's still talking to you and obviously wanting your attention. Learn from it and move on. Be more mindful of the little details next time.

Don't even sweat it bro. It's probably for the best that you forgot. Look at the results, she's chasing you now. It made you stand out opposed to the all the other people that wished her Happy Birthday that she probably forgot about already.

This gives you the oppportunity to go out on a date with her. Just be like hey let me make it up to you and if she ask how? Say Don't worry about it just wear something sexy and heels and be ready on this date/time. Done.

Yeah it's no big deal. She obviously still wants to talk to you, you did no serious damage. Keep doing you, you're a cool guy.

Glad someone mentioned that, since that's exactly why I didn't say anything. I thought I was being smooth shit by not acknowledging it, then after seeing her negative reaction I started to second-guess myself.

Thanks for all the responses, guys.

it wasnt a negative reaction, its the exact reaction you want... Her thinking about you and why you didnt say happy birthday opposed to all the other people that said happy birthday that she doesnt even think about now. It's her seeking some validation or attention. Now pounce on it. Make her dinner as a make up and bang the f out of her. Then when your done you say Happy Birthday.

Absolutely awesome idea. Thanks a lot!

Who cares man. You're still in the stage of working your magic on her, you haven't "acquired" her yet. Just be like, "I was just very busy, so I forgot. I got a surprise for you. Come to place x at y time." (asking her out). When she shows up, you give it to her.

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So how did it go?

She bludgeoned him to death with the blunt end of an axe and buried him in her yard.