Sat 4 febuary
Didn't do too many sets on this sarge but I got a number from some Chinese set. Never really even manage to stop these sets let alone get their number .

We did open a Swedish two set at mccdonalds which went quite well thanks to jackal but I didn't attempt to number close.

We finished off at slug and lettuce where I left to go to a 6's house that I met up with for a date that day. ATLEAST I HAD SOMEWHERE TO SLEEP YAY.

Anyway I went for a sarge in London two weeks ago and managed to get a number from a 9/10 goerdie 17 year old about two weeks ago. I texted her and set up a date which I had yesterday. I think it went went well. She implies it went well through texts (not that I asked obvs) but we will see how well it really went if she agrees to another date!

I couldn't do kino as we were both sitting in a coffee shop in seperate seats. But conversation flowed.

Appologies for this short and boring fr. I'm actually on a train writing this on my phone as I've had very little time.

Volcano : Amazing FR about the date with the Geordie girl. I know its difficult but all I can say is, you got to have a Kiss close on First date. Seems like its the most basic requirement for a PUA nowadays. Meanwhile, I will try to deal with my approach anxiety by opening two sets a day.

JOURNAL OF APPROACH ANXIETY

Day before yesterday, I went to the pub on campus and opened two guy sets but I knew them already so it doesnt count.

Yesterday I went to the same pub and hung around at the bar for close to 3 hours not talking to a single soul...not even guys. Its amazing. I have become a zombie.
All I got was loads of eye contact from atleast two or three girls but my fear of approaching was not diminishing. My only excuse to stay there was to drink diet coke and watch the live bands playing their songs.

FRIDAY SARGING WITH JACKALS IN COVENTRY

2 SET WETHERSPOON
3 SET WETHERSPOON
1 SET SCHOLARS
2 SET SCHOLARS

Friday night out continued.

I opened a group of two women and three guys. I went into the middle of the group and opened one of the women directly purposely ignoring the guys as I have realised that to get the really hot women (which is what I am into this for. I have noticed from speaking to a lot of guys in this are out to get what they can. I want the hottest women) I have to start going into groups with guys in them. One of the guys turned nasty and squared up to me and told me to go away. I told him I was going to the bar which was right next to me he kept telling me to fuck off.

I then opened a tall hot women who was with her friend and pulled her away to dance but her friend pulled her back after a while.

Friday night out in Coventry with THE JACKAL and DON JUAN.

Felt really shitty tonight as I had a long stressful week at work, so I was tired, didn't feel very confident, hadn't had a shave and two big spots on my face. I could of quite easily of just stopped in tonight and gone to sleep, but went out anyway. The first few approaches were very weak, I strugled to keep conversations going and just felt really forced. One of the groups was two polish women who just didn't understand me, so after afew minutes gave up and left. I then opened a group of three women two who were quiet hot and one was OK. After about five minutes DON JUAN joined me in the group and then left. I was getting quiet a lot of kino with one of them while talking to the whole group. Then THE JACKAL came in and introduced me to two guys and asked me to show the two guys how to approach four women who were not very hot. This did annoy me as although I wasn't getting a great reaction from the women I was slowly getting them to invest in the conversation more and more. I opened the group of four women who turned out to be two groups of two so I started to talk to two of them after opening the whole group. Then one of the guys THE JACKAL and just introduced me to came in and talked to the other as I was talking to her I kept making eye contact with one of the hot women from the previous group who had sat at a table right opposite were I was sitting. I didn't want to leave this set although it wasn't going anywhere as the other guy was still talking to the other woman although he wasn't getting any where.

We then moved bars and I opened a group of three women who left to go to the toilet after a while. I then opened a polish women wearing a red dress and then joined DON JUAN with a two women, he talked to the one and I chatted to the other. I was kinoing her and she was kinoing me back, but wasn't really interested I was just trying to wing DON JUAN. I then approached two women who were not very hot as the picking were slim and left after about two minutes as I just couldn't muster the energy to talk to them any longer. DON JUAN then asked me to approach a single women on her own. I opened her got kino going with her made her stand up and pinched her chair. We then left for to go back next door.

I walked straight up to a hot woman who was with her friend and just said hello and got kino going straight away, while still hugging her I started talking to her firend as I keep getting a lot of friends dragging women away. We then started kissing and I tried to take her outside but her friend wouldn't let me. I number closed her and we moved on to the next place.

I then got turned away from the next club as I hadn't got student ID we walked around for a while trying to find the next club in the cold. We finally found a club and made a few more approaches but none of them went anywhere.

Friday night in Coventry

I met up with Jackal in front of Odeon Cinema. Within 1 minute, he approached this beautiful girl in her 20’s. She seemed into him, and he had no problem keeping the conversation going. We head to the train station after he finishes talking to her. On the way there, he was giving me advice and doing some approaches on the way. At the train station, I did my first approach, I ran up to a girl, went direct, and she said she was in a hurry so she couldn’t talk.

We went in our train and got to Coventry 30 minutes later. We meet up with Don Juan. We all go to a bar/club that I think was called Mortimer’s (and I meet Romeo in front of the venue). As soon as I get in, I approached 2 girls and asked to take a picture with them because my SPAM went to Scotland this weekend and I wanted to show I had a good time as well (true story). I ended up being in the pic with one of them, the other one ducked out. I tried to keep the conversation going after that, but they didn’t seem interested in talking to me. I go back to the guys, who are at the bar. I get a glass of water, which is free. Alcohol doesn’t loosen me up, it just hurts my effectiveness and makes me avoid approaching even more than I normally would. I go to the bathroom twice because I was getting AA and felt out of place in the club. A few minutes later, I see Jackal and Don Juan again. Jackal encourages me to approach a 2 set with “who dances better, men or women?” I did it, but I didn’t know how to transition to another topic after the opener overstayed its welcome, which took like 20 seconds. I ejected.

Next, we all decide to go to the bar/club next door. I can’t exactly remember the order of everything that happened in there, but I know that I did the Carlton dance (from the Fresh Prince of Bel-air) at least two times on the dance floor. Off the dance floor, I approached a girl direct, but then I followed up with asking where the nice places to hang out were around there. It felt incongruent. In the middle of our conversation, she walked away. Literally mid-sentence. I thought that was kinda funny. Another set I approached was a 2-set, but I went right for the one I wanted and Jackal went for the other one. This girl was fucking beautiful. I went direct, but the conversation didn’t go anywhere and then her friend started pulling her away. Another one was a 5-set of Asian girls, none of whom wanted anything to do with me. I stayed there and said whatever I wanted. At one point, I just started waving at each one. That one was fun, even though it was a total fail. I tried to dance with and next to some girls on the dance floor, but it never worked. Then, Jackal and I caught the train to Birmingham. That was the whole night. I had fun.

Saturday night out with DON JUAN and VOLACANO.

Met DON JUAN and VOLCANO in a bar where we drank tea and DON JUAN explained some routines to me and VOLCANO.

We then went to Gatecrasher which was fun as it was a really loud high energy club with loads more guys than girls. Which is good as you can't be choosy about your sets and it forces you to be quick to appraoch as a people are always on the move. I think going to clubs like these are good as it challenges you and wheb you go back to normal enviroments it is easier.

My first two approaches I got blown out strait away. The third I went into a group of four women pulled one of them out of the group and told her to talk to DON JUAN ( as he was having trouble approaching AA ) and I went back to talk to the other three doing loads of kino and they were all kinoing me back. I thimk I could of kiss closed any three of them but two of them were 18 and one of them was 21 whgo wasn't hot.

I then approached two women walking past and got blown out straight away. DON JUAN then went for a cigarrette and I approached three women one of them left and I was talking to the other two. They were really friendly and was from coventry and I told DON JUAN to approach them later but he refused. They were showing me funny handshakes and high fives I started to turn my attention to one of them started doing more kino and again I could of kiss closed but she was only nineteen. The venue was full of very young people I think I was easily the eldest in their, I don't think I saw anyone over 21 in their.

Then DON JUAN said he wanted to do some dance floor game. I told him to go and dance with three women, I watched as he danced next to them but didn't make any contact with them, I went over and started to dance with DON JUAN and told him to just go and dance with them, then VOLCANO joined us. I kept telling DON JUAN to open this group of three women, but he refused so I opened them hoping that DON JUAN and VOLCANO would join me they did not which was a shame as they were really friendly and their was three of us and three of them.

I approached a women on her own who had her coat on who told me she worked their and was waiting for her boss. I talked to her for a while and then she left.

It was a good night overall and I think it will be a good idea to go to Gatecrasher again and other venues that are challenging.

I had a potential date at two o clock on saturday. I phoned her in the morning to confirm and everything seemed fine but she stood me up so I had to wait around till half four for SLICK.

I decided to try some solo sarging in street game but I had a lot of AA so remembered what jackal said about starting off small if you're going to do things solo. I asked a few girls for directions to clothing stores then moved onto random high fives then to getting girls to play rock paper scissors . All sets played it with me but I didn't attempt number closes on most of them.

I called all the numbers of girls and PUA's in brum to see if I didn't need to hang there in town alone and one girl answered. A girl I got a number off last year – LONG time ago. Well she agreed to meet me next Saturday and asked me to text her. But I feel like she's the type that will bail.

One set went really well in this solo sarge. I approached, then asked if I could interest them in a game of rock paper scissors. Then reading from their enthusiasm I put stakes on the game. I said if I win I get her number and I she wins I piggy back her to her destination. They agreed. So I lost and had to carry her to primark and so had some small talk with both of them while carrying her towards Primark. In the end I asked for her number anyway and got it. Weren't TOO attractive but they seemed fun

After this I met up with a new guy called SLICK. He wasn't confident and and acted unsure with himself – but all will improve soon I'm sure. He seemed a good genuine guy though and he seemed quite open minded to what we do and how we do things, open minded to change and welcomed critique.

Met with jackal then moved towards the center. Opened a single set that jackal told me to. She was attractive, maybe a 7 but wasn't my type and nor was I hers. But I asked her number and got it. We have been texting a bit but she seems alpha/ stern. Not sure why she is texting me back if she's not attracted to me/ interested. Possibly for attention, who knows. Id asked her on a date next week but she said she was working that day, so I won't reply till I call her. I think when ever I'm out of dates to arrange, I'll have a go at calling her.
OKAY, scratch that, It's been two days since I wrote the above, and the above mentioned girl is fucking randy, that's all im saying!

Met up with Don Juan in spoons then we did some street sets outside.
I number closed a Russian hb8 she seemed friendly and was on her way back to her dorm . I almost felt like I could have carried on talking and walking with her and taken her back go her room, that's how well things were going. But I number closed instead. We've been texting and she seems too easy... she has already invited me to her dorm next Saturday. There's something inside me that keeps hinting/warning that she's actually luring me to her room to stab me to death – this just seems too easy of a potential f close. Maybe the Russians are generally easy, who knows?

Don Juan did very few sets. We kept trying to get him to do sets but it just wasn't happening. He almost seemed like he didn't care about approaching/ didn't want to approach and he was content with the fact that he didn't approach. He doesn't seem like he's open to criticism or improvement. I'm not sure why he's here.

The next few hours of the sarge was completely pointless. Romeo, don and I went to get crasher, Romeo did loadsa sets, and attempted to get don to do some. I don't know what I was doing... I approached NO sets at gatecrasher. There was something stopping me and I don't know why – possibly location anxiety. The place wasn't my kind of place and I probably won't go there again.


I got to subside, and met a guy and his friends and spoke with him for a while, he seemed really friendly and later on that night he asked me to wing him with some girls (he was not a pua) so I did.

Don just kind of lingered around the place, not doing anything.

I started with a fat 5, had some conversation... I could tell she would have fucked me in the bushes right there and then, but the wing came next to me and hinted to leave so we did. We attempted a group, and the most attractive one was occupied with a guy. There were two girls, a 5/10 and a 6, possibly 7.
We danced for a bit, the 5 was so desperate she kept flirting with me and attempting to kiss me, while the 6 was also all over me, but they both didn't seem to care that I had both their attention.
So I spoke with this 6 and just before I was going to get a taxi back to hers, the 5 comes up to me and says “my fiends said theyd give me 20 pounds to kiss you” and I was like “Okay...” so we kissed each other for like 5 seconds, and she was like “okay you have my number, txt me”. AHHHH GIRLS SHOULDN'T DO THAT! The 6-7 I was getting a taxi back to hers with watched the whole time, she didn't care.


Okay, so the sarge went OKAY, but I need to try work harder to get the more attractive girls.

Concerning the numbers. I'm texting 3 of the numbers I got during street game and all of the conversations are mostly sexual. This russian girl seems so easy it's ridiculous, Im wondering now whether I over rated her looks.

About the 7:
Our texts went like this:
here: “haha I do busines smangement aswell, and thats cool”
me: “coolbeans, wanna take me back to yours and have sex on saturday? Sound alright? X”
her: “well that's a romantic offer but I might pass”
me: “omg where my “x”? okay okay, would you like to drink some tea and chill with me at caffe rouge and sat?x”
her: “a more pleasant offer but im working all day”

Right, so at this point IF I kept asking it would seem like begging so I didnt reply, and I didn't think she would text me after this, BUT, this is what SHE said the next the day after:
“alright beautiful, good day?x”
so we texted a bit after this, and things started getting sexual.

The 17 year old whos number I got on the rock paper scissors routine has pretty much agreed that I go to her house.

VOLCANO.

U are getting better, that is why u r in shock when things are going well. I have seen u and JIMBEAM do well and then not transition, as you guys had low expections, just a number. It is not because people are becoming nicer or they are criminals. U R MAKING THEM FEEL COMFORTABLE.

If u did a re-engagement after I went. U would have got further.

Well done. I appreciate you helping the guys.

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Hey all, this is going to be short and sweet FR of our little adventure with Jackal on Valentines day

1. Chinese girl - went direct, she was shocked and smile afterwards while still walking away, I guess because it was my first approach and it is still sluggish
2. Direct on this girl, who seem pretty friendly at first but slowly came up with "I have a BF" and she started walking away and smilling at the same time
3. Apparently I had approached a middle age woman and I honestly can't remember this one
4. At this point we met up with WOlverine and he approached this 2 set and I winged him, I went for a more normal conversation flow, didn't run any crazy stuff

basically having normal conversation but I made a point to help wolverine to isolate her friend by talking to her and keep occupying her with conversation and let

Wolverine do his thing. I number closed the friend
5. This is a little dumb, basically I took Wolverines bag and start pulling out crap to use as a prob and it didn't go well, look like I was selling some cardboard or

something. Approach 2 set and instantly got ignore
6. This one is a little crazy, approach a youing girl which I obviously know she is young, it was just practise so I talked to her and little did I know her father was

standing 2 metres away from her and I know I was F**Ked
7. This is by far the most attractive one and she was eating her sandwhich and I ran towards her and did direct, she stayed and I know my opener was doing ok because i

started to talk more slowly and clearly, obviously I did not do some stuff and she left, no numbers
8. 2 sets, not attractive but my god they were super friendly, the chubby one was defintely hook with the opener because she laugh and giggle right of the opener and I

keep pushing. Once we talked I just went normal conversation, not much game played here, but i made a point to kino and ping for attraction. a lot of bedroom jokes

and luckily enough Jackal was there to wing and keep the conversation fun. number close
9. ran towards a girl with funky shoes, Orange shoes, did not hook
10. Blonde with a sainsburry bag, a blow out that one was
11. Professionally dress, tall with high heels and she was blonde, went to her direct, she hook we shook hands and I did cold read on her and told her that she works

in professional field, I was going for lawyer and then I said she works for the bank and she said yes, the handshake gave it away. she was busy and no number close

from that, i need to punch myself in the nuts and keep saying this "ALWAYS BE CLOSING" "A B C"
12.Approach a pink haired girl, blow out and this had to do with my voice projection to low
13. Blonde girl, hooked on the opener and my problem was I stared to lose my momentum here, ran out of things to say and at this point everything I know aoubt game

goes out the window, I just wanted to eject for no reason, started being afc alittle
14. blonde smoking outside the building, I might look like a clown a little if I have to be hohnest here so a blow out was guranttee
15. This is a hot one as well. I went semi direct and this one hook as well, but ended up with BF statement
16. Approach this girl from taiwan and she did not speak much english and that makes thing a little weird and the wind was helping at all
17. THis is by far the shyiest girl I've ever approach, soft spoken and she was blushing. ended up walking with her to train station and chat a little and got a

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Did all this in 2.5 hours. to be honest, i just needed the volume, and what I have found out from this is that AA doesn;t affect me as much and I only realise this

when i got home; I did not dwell on any blow outs at all, rejection did not affect as much, I mean I have a lof of blow outs, I think nearly all of them are blow outs

but did not think of it even for a second,

can't wait for the next one

LAST FRIDAY SARGING WITH JACKALS IN COVENTRY

JACKAL , SLICK AND ROMEO met me in Coventry to do some sarging.

We went to Mortimers, a decent club. ROMEO started opening one set after the other like crazy. It was just amazing.

I winged ROMEO in a couple of sets but the girls seemed a bit cold. We went to Wetherspoon's next door. I and ROMEO decided

to point sets to each other.

1) 2 SET WETHERSPOONs HB7 29 yo blonde and HB6.5 37 year old Indian : I opened a two set with a simple opener "Hey how is it going?" and they seemed to be very friendly. I gave a self intro and then asked their names and shook their hands. Asked how they knew each other and then the Indian HB7 seemed to be giving loads of IOI's. I did the zodiac thing with them which was good. The blonde was engaged. The Indian was single and worked for a bank as a manager. She was talking to me so closely into my ears, I almost could feel her lips. I tried to ask her to dance with me but she said she didnt like the songs being played. Then I tried to ask her out the next week or something but she said she wasn't free.She said she didn't go out much as she was now getting a bit older. I also introduced ROMEO to the set. ROMEO must have done some heavy kino with the blonde lady because after I left the set to buy a drink, they had vacated and when I saw them come back, they were trying to avoid me. Clearly it was the blonde one who was trying to get the Indian away from me because of ASD. I don't regret number closing her very much though cos she was 37 but I should have asked her number.


2) 3 SET WETHERSPOON : ROMEO pointed me to a 3-set and I went up and said "Hey how is it going?". One of them said I was very brave to come up to them and talk. She said British girls are a hard nut to crack. I said I was not trying to crack any nut. Then I introduced my self and shook hands. Then I went into Zodiac analysis of the group which was received warmly. Then she said they all had boyfriends. I just ejected with a handshake after complimenting on how beautiful she was.


3) 1 SET SCHOLARS HB7 : ROMEO and I went to Scholars later as they didnt allow us into Kasbah nightclub as it was open only for university students. Scholars was full of hot babes. ROMEO pointed me to a HB7 brunette who was standing with a group of 4 other chicks. She was friendly but a bit shy and didnt turn to me. I shook her hand but she turned away toward her group in a shy manner. So that was basically a blowout.

Bullying on dance floor : I went to dance alone and started dancing. A two set of girls started to dance closely giving me IOI's. At this point, a group of guys were pointing to me and making fun of me. Seems like bullying is highly rampant around clubs in UK. I got very angry and stared at them for a while but they kept laughing at me. I went out of the dance floor dejected. How can people can get away with this behaviour without getting punched ?

I was asked by ROMEO to do one last set before I left.

4) 2 SET SCHOLARS HB7 and blonde HB7.5 : I opened a two set and said to both of them in their ears that they were looking gorgeous. The jealous blonde said " We both have boyfriends" and started pulling the other one away. I told her " Ask your boyfriends to go fuck themselves." And then weleft the club.

LAST SATURDAY SARGING WITH JACKAL, VOLCANO, ROMEO - STREET SETS AND GATECRASHERS.

I met JACKAL AND VOLCANO in Wetherspoons paradise forum and I opened two sets with VOLCANO and I pointing out sets to each other. I did resist a lot to the pushing of JACKAL to open sets because I was trying to do some research on my own to deal with Approach anxiety and right now I am coming up with some positive results on how I can permanently remove approach anxiety than to get inconsitencies in the future and not knowing why sometimes I have AA and sometimes I don't.
1) 1 set HB7 : I opened her but she said she was in a hurry and walked away.
2) 1 set HB7 : I opened her with a compliment and did self intro. Then I did compliance handshake and my mind went blank. So I tried the who lies more opener. This was a mistake. It kept on dragging meaninglessly. My mind had just gone blank. She just ejected and I found out that she was going to Wetherspoons to meet some friends. So she came out in the smoking zone later where I pretended not to see her. This is a problem. I feel guilty that I opened a set which makes it awkward when the same set passes by me again.

After this, we went to a bar in Chinatown where JACKAL opened some sets. Dolphin joined us briefly.
Later Jackal left and I, VOLCANO and ROMEO went to Gatecrashers.
There were loads of sets there but I didnt approach any sets except one which ROMEO pointed to me.

3) HB7 AVALANCHE OPENER : I went up to her and used the AVALANCHE opener. I said "hey how is it going?". She said good and I asked her "Do you want to come back to my place later?". She said no. I then kept on talking normal stuff like self intro, compliance handshake and i guessed her zodiac sign in one attempt and gave her a hi5. Immediately her girl friend came up with the drink and said "Fuck off" like 5 times and showed me the finger. Obviously I had done some damage to their friendship by using the Avalanche opener and I was quite happy with it. I suspect that the friend could clearly see it in my target's face that I had raised her value and my own value to the sky with the avalanche opener. This is something I am going to do more research on in the near future and I am really excited about it.

4) Set ROMEO opened but I used the AVALANCHE opener on : ROMEO asked me to open a 4 set standing. I didnt open. So he went up and opened them. Then he introduced me to a cute looking HB7. I used the avalanche opener. She seemed to be a bit shocked by it. I continued conversation randomly and she said she had a boyfriend. Later we ejected.

I tried dancefloor game but I still didnt get enough guts to kino or go close to the chicks. ROMEO did it finally and did it well. But he ejected.

SUBSIDE with VOLCANO
I later went to Subside with VOLCANO. He was opening some guy sets and then girl sets he had previously met. I was very tired and just sat alone on a couch. I should have tried to open sets but I didnt. I have been doing nothing for the last three weeks I have been to Subside.

Later I saw VOLCANO kiss closing a HB3 with a big wart or a cyst on her forehead. A few minutes before that, she was seen kissing two other guys who looked like losers. Later VOLCANO left with the HB3 probably to her place, I am not sure.

I can easily open sets when I have a beer or two. I would not consider myself as a PUA if I have to use alcohol to open sets.

Conclusion : I was very happy at the end of the night and felt like a boss although I did only three sets. I will be posting an amazing FR this weekend of my adventures. So stay classy San Diego and thank you for stopping by.

Last night I had a date with HB8. I had a kiss close. But I did end up spending 50 quid.

Having arrived a little bit late, I was quite apprehensive about meeting with Jackal. I was already late and I had failed my first mission; to be escorted to the meeting point via an escort. Anyway on meeting Jackal, he was fairly laid back and oozed the confidence I was looking for in a mentor. He was, and is and Alpla male and has no fear when talking to girls.

The day started with Jackal reviewing how I got to to the meeting point and i explained that I had asked 3 men for directions and the flaw in my approach was immediately apparent to him. As Jackal mentioned, I had an actual need for help, a genuine opener for talking to women and I had thrown it out of the Window. Jackal went on to explain that I needed to do two things that would benefit my approach before even starting- 1) Project my voice more and 2) walk like an Alpha male, I.e. Shoulders back, chest out and head high.

Let the GAME begin-

The first 4 sets I approached didn't go to well, a blonde girl didn't hear me through a lack of vocal projection, followed by me apologising before even engaging in a conversation with the other 3 sets. The Jackal saw the problem and told me to stop apologising and be more confident, this really did help as I actually got 3 girls to engage in a conversation with me. By this point I knew I had made a massive leap but still needed help. I blew myself away when talking to these girls. Jackal then spotted a really hot police woman and I felt a lot more confident and she was happy at being called beautiful but as she was on duty it didn't seem to progress any further.

The day went on I continued pushing through the sets, whilst being given targets by Jackal- get a hand shake, get a hug and the toughest one get a number close. Jackal really helped with these. Initially I struggled to get a handshake but Jackal kept reminding me and when the opportunity came he would help me out. He also showed me how to open a set and got me my first hug. My confidence was slowly improving and I continued to push through the sets with slight adjustments to my approach each time. I got talking to a blonde girl after hugging the previous girl and I really should have got her number but I failed to re-engage, a weakness I really need to work on.

By now we were approaching twenty sets and we were back at the central Library. This is where I got my new Name- Cobra and first/almost number close. I Started talking to cute red haired girl and she was listening and seemed be genuinely reciprocating to what I was saying, Jackal helped me out and I felt more confident but I kind of undid a lot of my hard work by giving her my phone number rather than taking hers.

Around Mid day we met Dragon and he became my wingman for the rest of the day. This provided a completely new dimension to how to approach girls. At first this felt a little bit weird with regards to how we should communicate when talking to a set though this was easily explained by Jackal. With Dragon now a part of us I felt slightly more adventurous, like I needed to prove myself. I Spoke to a blonde girl and she asked me to walk with her, she was pretty. She had a nice smile and blue eyes. The conversation seemed to flow, she gave me advice on what I should and shouldn't wear and the type of colours that would suit me. Things were going well and so I asked her for her number but she said she had a boyfriend and I backed out saying bye. The same pattern repeated itself when I met an Asian girl, though she had a fiancé.

By now we had done 30+ sets and I was tiring slightly, I was making mistakes. I went back to apologising before actually engaging with the set, this saw me get ignored or brushed off quickly. However, before the end of the day I did number close two girls. The first a pretty black haired girl who was trying to get back to work, although I made the mistake of giving her my number again and the second a Chinese girl who I number closed and got a hug from. Jackal seemed proud but brought me back to Earth by saying a number close should be finished by walking with the girl before leaving.

The day drew to an end with one last approach, 2 Asian girls- hot but seemed stuck up. I just couldn't do it, I said 'Hi, How are you?' and got ignored and Jackal decided to send Dragon in but I failed him as a wingman. I couldn't go in. Following this Jackal departed and left me and Dragon with a target of 20 more sets. By now I was tired and looked for excuses I didn't approach a single set- the environment changed suddenly the City Centre had become really busy and I got really bad AA. Dragon spoke to 5 more sets.

On the train home I realised that everything really was down to confidence. I just need to keep pushing and the confidence will come.

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