| I will start by saying that I'm not interested in breaking up this girl and her boyfriend, I don't think it's right, and I don't care that much anyway.
I'm not looking to smash and dash either, that's not how I operate.
It's rare for me to meet a girl I respect, she is one of them, this is a girl I would like to be friends with, but not JUST friends. It's worth mentioning we don't know each other particularly well either.
We had plans to hang out a few weeks ago and she bailed, citing a going-away party for a friend. Her boyfriend was going there too, I figure that's why she canceled instead of inviting me. It was her idea for us to meet up in the first place. She said something to the effect of us doing it another time to make up for missing this opportunity. She is extremely busy at school, and very dedicated. Consequently we haven't met up since, texted each other minimally.
When she first suggested we get together, I figured she had broken up with her boyfriend. She texted me out of the blue, and it seemed odd to do it if she was still dating him, considering we don't know each other well. We aren't exactly friends, we simply haven't spent much time together. She could just be that naive and think I only want to be her friend, she does have an unusual amount of male friends.
The point is: I want to maintain SOME contact with this girl, so I'm not forgotten about. Just not much so that I get pushed further into the friend zone, to the point where I can't get out.
How do I go about that? Should she decide she wants to get together again, do I just tell her that I'm not interested in simply being her friend? I think that would get me out of the friend zone. She might not like it, and it might just get me out of the picture altogether, but that's better than the friend zone.
I realize the simplest way to go about this is to forget about her boyfriend and just game her like any other girl, but again, I don't wish to break them up.
I think I included everything relevant, but if you need more info, please ask.
I thank you for reading this, and a premature thank you for your responses.
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