Sarged with a new guy who posted here also from Nashville.

We originally met up at one bar but it was pretty dead so we hit up a bar that has a fairly good crowd for a monday night and a lot of dancing.

I was looking for someone to dance with and the first set blew me off, my 2nd approach ended up being a girl (a) there alone before her friends arrived.... I asked her to teach me how to dance she said "smooth approach" and we she taught me how to dance! We did a few songs and I left to go find RustySkillz and I think she danced with a friend...

When I found RS he was in a 4 set of 3 girls and 1 guy! Great move guy! We became friends with this group and they were really cool. I went up to A again to dance and she said she hadn't finished her beer yet.. yeah okay. So I went back to the set RS had opened and brought one of the girls to dance. I know (a) watched me do this so it was a big DHV.

Went back and sat down with the group and (a) approached me with lots of kino, still hadn't finished her beer, saying she needs to be careful she could have been roofied. I told her that happens to me a lot...She said to come find her when I finished my cigarette.

I found her and we danced again, it got more sexual... but that's about it. I tried to kiss her but she kind of moved back and after the song ended said she had to dance with a friend... blah went back to the group..

Brought another girl from the group to dance.. I know (a) saw me with this different girl... I didn't see her at first but then I noticed her sitting down watching... ha ha.

We finished dancing and went back to the group. I approached (a) again to dance... This time it got a bit more sexual and she was too, lots of kino and eye contact. I think I may have got on slight here...I spun her too hard and said "yeah I'm aggressive" she said "just in dancing or in general" i said "no, agressive in everything."

I pushed her hair aside and kissed the side of her face and she said "here i thought i was just teaching a nice guy to dance.." and i said "no you didn't." she smiled.

unfortunately, and i know her friends were watching, so she went back to her friend when the song ended... so i went back to the group RS was still in.

I talked with the group and got the girls and the guys number. i'll call one or two of them.

By this point RS had left so I was alone and the group left, uh oh nashnewbie you're all alone.

Went to find girl and saw her dancing with her friend. Song ended she was sitting down talking to him.

I went up to her, didn't acknowledge her friend, brushed her hair aside and said
"I'm not going to apologize for going after what I want, and I want to take you home tonight but you're with your friend so give me your phone so I can put my number in it."

She grabbed my hand but unfortunately said "I'm here every week come back" I just looked at her in the eyes, smirked, and walked off. Didn't know what else to do here...ideas?

uh yeah, go the fuck back next week!

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Indulgence not compulsion.

Pretty much summed it up!

He left out the fact that the first bar we met in I was sweating with AA! He made an approach at a bar that went nowhere and that put me in the right state of mind.

The 4 set was a doctor and his 3 nurses! Pretty cool people. I was having so much fun I forgot to cut it off and open more sets before it got too late. Oh well. We both number closed, though I won't use them.

You did great with escalation. Like hank said, going back is a great idea. I'm with ya!