Have you ever been in a pickup situation and things were going great until you heard: "Oh, well I have a boyfriend already" ...and then panicked or got frustrated?

I have found the best way to deal with this response or comment is simple act like it's not that big of a deal. Why? Chances are the reason you are hearing that response is not because she has a boyfriend, but because she is saying "it's been nice talking to you but I'm not ready to give my number out"

Whe she says this, or throws it in the conversation...read her face and expression. Most of the time she will show conflicting responses which mean she doesn't have one or wants to get to know you but feels it not right to her boyfriend.

Heres one instance it happened to me and what I said to end up getting her number:

Her "Sorry, I am kinda seeing someone now and it wouldn't be right."

Me "Oh good for you. So when's the wedding happening?"

Her "We aren't engaged"

Me (laughing) Well it's probably not that serious, huh? Just give me your number and we will get coffee sometime.

Her I don't know. Well I guess I can, but as long as you know we will just be meeting as friends.

Me Well thank you for letting me know, I do appreciate it. I will enter your number in my phone now and we'l meet and see what happens.

So anyway I ended up getting her number and hooking up with her a few weeks later. She actualy had a bf in this case, and it was just a matter of not letting her boyfriend response get to me and keep continuing the convo as if it never really happened.

Hope this example helped and let me know what you would say if she says "I have a bofriend already" in your pick up approach!

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"You look like someone who could use 2 boyfriends" or "Ok thats cool. It'll give you something to do when i'm busy".

well, I am bad. I am so adding to you man baggage.

Good eye contact and tonality is the key.

keep talking as if she didnt said that.
if she keeps saying that,then tell her the"yeah,but does he make you happy?i see sadness in your eyes sometimes,you look like you can have a better relationship"shit.
tell her how great you are in a relationship...if you have time with her alone,then do the"CUBE"shit on her...this shit will have her sucking your drool.


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hey man, i don't know about the whole 'sadness in your eyes part' but the main point is to act like man who knows what he wants and doesn't stoop to conventional social means. aka a man with high status who understands he is valued by other women.

I would avoid going into to much detail about how she is sad and instead use reverse psychology. Tell her how happy you are for her and she must be his little 'princess'
For one it will make her really examin her relationship and two make you look like it's no big deal if she goes out with you or not.

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Exactly... that's my technique. Be supportive, but exaggerate her relationship.

be more honest with your intentions to start with, she will do the same, if a girl tells you she has a boyfriend it is either

-she actually has a boyfriend
-a sign of dis-interest
-she wants to see how you react

if you are direct from the start, option 3 will basically not exist, and if you are into getting girls to cheat, you can continue being direct,

if you need a stock cheesy line:
''thats great my mom loves boyfriends, don't worry we can keep it a secret''

if you find you are getting ''I HAVE A BOYFRIEND'' really really early in the set as soon as some interest is shown, that is a good sign she finds you un-attractive, and it would be worth it to just move onto another set instead of trying to plow for a girl who is not interested, if it happens later after you have shown interest and she has reciprocated and been flirting just take it as she is passing off responsibility to cheat and continue as thus if that is what you want (if you like getting girls to cheat), you can use some cheesy line or w/e or you can just say I understand, or ignore it, either way any escalation past that point has to ''just happen'' and be your fault, create the situation and don't try to get her to agree with it, just make it happen and make it your fault not hers, that way she can justify it to her boyfriend if she has to ''one thing led to another, I just went to his house for a drink and rockband, and then I don't know what happened I was too drunk to remember, and he only kissed me and blah blah, NOTHING HAPPEND!!''

Straw Man all the way.

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Oh yeh, I have a gold fish
Her: What?
Me: Oh, I thought we were talking about things that weren't important
Her: Oh my Dissleksick, you so fine, take me home right now and split me open like a coconut.

Nat haha! I would definitely do what the guys above me said^^

"Good, I don't want to be your boyfriend" (Add sexy intent eyes here, then cut thread)

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The following responses usually work well for me

1) Her: I have a boy friend!
Me: Do not you wanna have a better one? (With a wink

2) Her: I have a boy friend!
Me: We have met a few minutes ago and you're already telling about your problems...


(Sorry for my bad English guys)