every once in a while i feel instant attraction to a women by the way she looks but once i meet her i realize i dont like her qualities. its strange i will find things about her that i am not attracted to such as her outlook on life, she isnt witty, i dont like the things she says or the way she talks to people but i still cant get rid of that attraction. i dont feel like its a primal sex urge because i dont necessarily find them THAT sexy. theres always women that i want to fuck more.

i know there is a facial geometry/proportionality thing that makes me attracted to certain women but is my brain really that fucked that i cant evr make those feelings go away? also i read once that if you are attracted to a woman then she is attracted to u aswell and i completely believe it but im always so disappointed in myself when i find out the chick is a dud but i still want her.

anyone else ever have similar experiences?

Yep, it is pretty common... I often get attracted to high class bitches.
Its only human to feel attracted but it is very alpha to not waste your time in some girl that will not satisfy you, even if you feel attracted.

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Well, you like what you like and you cant do very much about it. Just dont apologize for it. If you love obese tattooed midgets, just admit it and go for the ones you come across.

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to the OP if you really want to get rid of those feelings, rail her a couple of times.

I say it is a primal sexual urge, it doesn't matter if there are other girls you would like to have sex with more... I'd like to have sex with Katie Perry or Adriana Lima more then that hottie at the bar... That doesn't mean I don't still want the hottie at the bar though

Biologically speaking men could in theory "mate" with hundreds/thousands of women, we have plenty to go around... add in testosterone and there you go... Sexual attraction to a wide range of women, it's just natural buddy.